This is not an era of fighting alone, and the use between people is inevitable. If we go back thousands of years, back to the era of eating raw meat in animal skins, in order to resist the attack of wild animals, human beings can only hold a group to keep warm. Since then, people know that they need others' help to achieve their goals. This is the most basic use relationship. Don't be surprised. Standing on the shoulders of giants can make them see farther, and everyone will rely on the strength of others to achieve them.

First of all, being used by others shows that you have certain value. A person without any value will not be used by others. What can he do with you? Speaking of this, we have to talk about people's views on friends. Some people say that more friends make it easier to leave. This shows that people make more friends because they want to accumulate contacts to make themselves more comfortable. People make friends and expand their circle of friends, and some people make money directly from their circle of friends. Isn't this normal? The premise is that you make friends with someone who has no pure purpose. What's interesting is that the other person approaches you for some purpose, so the two people have reached a tacit understanding. You can use me, and I can use you.

Why use normal social relations? For example, a worker came to my house with a gas tank just now. My home is on the seventh floor, and there is no elevator. If I were to do the hard work myself, I might not be able to do it at all. Someone made it for me. I think this is also a kind of use, but this kind of use is paid and there is no problem at all.

To sum up, utilization is the most basic social relationship between people. No one can live alone without society and be used, which shows that you have the value of being used.