In a speech, Mr. Hu Shi said some inspiring words to encourage graduates.
If you play mahjong in your spare time, you may become a gambler.
If you use your leisure time to do social service, you may become a social reformer;
Or if you study history in your spare time, you may become a historian.
Your leisure often determines your life.
The sentence "Your leisure often determines your life" makes people wake up like a dream.
There will be kung fu in eight hours.
After work, all you do is widen the gap with others.
The writer Wu Danru once said, "The entertainment you choose will determine your future unconsciously."
How you kill time, time will kill you in turn.
The attitude towards leisure time determines the height of life and hides a person's future.
Be careful to make friends, study hard, thoroughly, and get rid of glitz.
Be a man and be cautious in making friends; Do things, work hard.
Flying with the phoenix, it must be a handsome bird; Walking with tigers and wolves is an animal.
Excellent people can motivate themselves to move forward; Bad people will induce their decadence.
Do things down-to-earth, don't aim too high and be opportunistic.
Let yourself sink down and do the things at hand with peace of mind. People who are too impetuous will never get things done.
Strengthen your own strength, don't be too addicted to illusory things.
With the strength of hard core, once the opportunity comes, it is possible to soar.
Can withstand the wind and rain, can sharpen an iron man, not to be envied, is a mediocrity.
There is such a passage in the Mind Code:
"You can't ask for a life ocean without storms, because pain and suffering are part of life. The sea without storms is not a sea, but a mud pond. "
Life is a practice, and life is a discipline.
Real life is always full of mud and sand, with laughter and tears, thorns and flowers.
After many hardships, Hua Song finally has a hard shell to protect us from the cold.
Only by constantly practicing in hardships and setbacks can people become mature.
In the face of others' jealousy, it may be a good thing to think from another angle.
Someone is jealous of you, which shows that you have extraordinary strengths in some way;
No one is jealous of you, which only shows that your qualifications are average and you have nothing to gain.
There is a saying on the Internet:
"Some people like you because they think you are better.
Some people hate you because they think you are too good.
Some people respect you because they think you are excellent.
Some people look down on you because they think you are not good. "
In the face of praise, proud but not complacent; Be modest and not discouraged in the face of criticism.
Life is never based on what others say. Stick to yourself and live hard.
Nothing is more meaningful than living a good life and a full life.
Don't be bullied when you are down and out; When you succeed in your career, you won't be envied.
A person is in adversity, and his attitude towards himself exposes his solar terms;
When a person is prosperous, his attitude towards others reveals his accomplishment.
In adversity, keep your personality intact, don't underestimate yourself, don't blame others;
In good times, respect the integrity of others' personality, treat others with a low profile and be lenient with others.
Above others, we should treat others as human beings, avoid having too much sense of identity, put away arrogance and face others modestly and quietly.
Under people, we should treat ourselves as human beings, be equal to others, be neither supercilious nor supercilious, and respect each other and ourselves.
When dealing with people, you should learn to suffer. As the saying goes: give way to the bank for life, and don't lose a paragraph.
The negative textbook said: "The potential is inexhaustible, the happiness is inexhaustible, the cheapness is inexhaustible, and the cleverness is inexhaustible."
Dealing with people means haggling over every ounce, being calculated by the authorities, taking advantage of it, and ultimately being unpopular.
The most valuable thing about being a man is that he is willing to take the initiative to suffer.
Those who can bear hardships are people with lofty ideals, and those who are willing to bear hardships are not idiots.
Know what you have lost, or choose to stick to it. Such people are very wise.
Eating some losses at the right time can solve the problem;
Knowing how to make concessions in time can ease the broken relationship.
Anyone who cares about the gains and losses of a city and a pool is doomed to be short-lived.
If you don't read, you will get a good friend; Reading what you have read is like meeting an old friend.
Mr. Jiang Yang once wrote in Reading Bitter:
"Reading is like visiting the home of the most outstanding person in the world.
If you want to meet an admired teacher or a famous scholar, you don't have to say hello in advance, and you are not afraid to disturb the host.
Open the book, break into the house, turn over a few pages and enter the room.
Besides, you can go there often and anytime. If you can't get to the point, you can leave without saying goodbye, or you can be smart and confront him. "
It is often the easiest to play tricks on people who like to turn their hands for the clouds and cover their hands for the rain.
In this life, suffering will torture people, praise and sudden gains will still destroy a person.
But if you read more books and read wisdom, you can face all kinds of fate correctly.
Yu once said: "If you read this one day earlier, your life will be more wonderful;" One day later, one more day of mediocre troubles. "
Reading is to build a shelter for myself. No matter the wind and rain outside, I am calm from the heart.
Everyone has anxiety problems and life problems. Only reading can cure all life.
If you are cheap, don't pay with it; Don't ask anything from suspicious people.
You can't get along with people who are greedy and cheap, and there are money exchanges.
People who take advantage are too concerned about immediate interests.
With people who take advantage, it is often easy to get estranged because of a little interest.
In the long run, you will not only hurt your feelings because of money, but also bring yourself a lot of unnecessary trouble.
You can't work with people who are suspicious by nature
Cao Cao was entertained by the Lv Boshe family for killing pigs. The sound of sharpening the knife made Cao Cao suspicious and killed the Lv Boshe family.
Suffering from headache, Hua Tuo was suspected and died in prison.
Suspicious people are good at catching shadows, making things out of nothing, and people around them will be very painful.
With suspicious nature, you will only be exhausted in the end.
Zeng Guofan also said: "If you are interested in others, you will participate." If you work with suspicious people, you will never succeed. "
Make a first-class wish, make a first-class love, and enjoy the next blessing; If you choose to stand tall, sit flat and walk wide.
Left inscribed couplets in Meiyuan, Wuxi, Jiangsu.
The first couplet says: people should have ambition, just seek fate and live the life of ordinary people.
The bottom line is: look at the problem from a long-term perspective, be a low-key person, and leave room.
People should have ambitions, not blindly follow, not degenerate, and have the determination to realize their ambitions in life;
But at the same time, we should also understand that life is not perfect, not harsh, not discouraged, know how to be content, and learn to be tolerant.