Love is meaningful only if it is left to those who deserve it. Some women always complain that men don't know how to cherish themselves. In fact, in men's eyes, there are two kinds of women, one is worth cherishing and pampering, and the other is not worth paying.
In fact, what kind of person you are, you will find what kind of person. Your characteristics determine what kind of people you will meet. If you don't know how to improve yourself and correct your shortcomings, you won't be favored by men.
In intimate relationships, most of the women that men don't cherish are these three kinds. I hope you don't take any of them.
An overly rational woman.
Generally speaking, a sensible woman should be able to gain men's inner pain and compassion. However, everything should be moderate. Women who love too much will only be taken for granted by each other.
I heard a story about a man and a woman who were classmates at school and fell in love in high school. Women always accept men unconditionally. After going to college, the two were in different places, and every time the woman took a day train to see him.
After graduating from college, in order to stay with men for a long time, a woman gave up her stable job in her hometown and worked hard with men in big cities. However, she is sensible, but she has not changed her love. Later, men fell in love with others and abandoned women.
Love must be moderate. Women who love too much, are too humble and sensible will not be cherished by men. A woman must remember that her lover loves seven points and keeps the remaining three points for herself. Investing too much will only make you more passive.
For the rest of your life, when you learn to love yourself and ask men for love, you will get the happiness you want.
Second, women who value money too much.
There is a saying that talking about money hurts feelings, that's right. Men never want love to be linked to money. What they long for is a pure love, and that is to marry the person they love forever.
Women who value money too much always put interests and money first. When looking for a partner, they don't consider whether they love each other or not, but whether the other party has money and can meet their own needs.
When a man meets a woman who worships money, he will only meet her economic needs and will not give her love. When a man has a new goal, he will abandon her directly.
If a relationship depends entirely on money, it will be difficult to last. Women value money too much and will definitely not be cherished by men.
Third, a nagging and complaining woman.
In love, two people are still independent individuals. They can associate with like-minded friends and do what they like. Sometimes, only two people can interfere with each other, and this love can last longer and keep fresh.
However, some women like to control men. No matter what a man does and where he goes, he should report to her. If a man is disobedient, he will always nag him.
Most of the time, men need privacy. Even if two people fall in love again, give him the freedom he wants. If he is with a nagging and complaining woman, he will only feel tired and depressed. In this case, he naturally won't give love.
Women who love to nag and complain usually only consider their own feelings and don't care about what men think. If women don't understand empathy, men won't cherish women. Sooner or later, you have to understand that love is mutual, and you have to exchange sincerity for sincerity.
Between people, it is always mutual. If you just want to ask for love and never give it, you won't get true love. Of course, when a woman gives love, she should be moderate.
Women are too sensible, but men don't cherish them. Women care too much about money, so men will not take this relationship seriously. Women often nag and complain, and men just want to stay away from you.
Women should remember all their lives that their love for men should be moderate, and women who pay too much or too little can not be cherished by men.