When making friends, everyone must think clearly and understand who should be close and who should keep their distance. Talking to people casually is likely to suffer. But more importantly, you need to be yourself, make yourself an attractive talent, and make others willing to make friends with you.
In order to make more friends, you'd better stick to the following three principles so that you can make fewer mistakes in social life.
1. Don't use others.
Friends need to treat each other sincerely. Even in the highly competitive and calculated workplace environment, we still need to treat talents with sincerity in order to win the sincerity.
Don't try to take advantage of others when interacting with them. It's really not worth losing the trust of others because of a little petty profit. And if this kind of thing gets out, it will be very bad for your personal image, and no one will want to make friends with you in the future.
After all, no one wants to take the initiative to suffer, let alone be taken advantage of by others. This feeling is very bad. In the long run, it will be difficult for you to make friends.
Drink less and brag less.
An important social occasion in China is a party, in which most people can't avoid drinking, which is a very common social way.
After drinking, everyone's reaction is different. This is a physiological reaction, which is difficult to control, but we should know what kind of temperament we are in advance.
If you like to talk nonsense and brag after drinking, then you should control it, don't pick up the glass easily, or control your own quantity. People who don't drink can easily hurt others or get involved with others, and no one wants to get close to such people.
3. Don't believe in promises
We always want to be affirmed by others, because everyone thinks that you have paid and others will give you a corresponding return, so that everyone will become a cooperative relationship and finally become friends. This way is of course correct.
However, first of all, we must recognize our own abilities and don't give people empty promises easily. Too many checks will eventually make jokes and even make people look down upon them. Because if you can't do what you promised, you are cheating others. A person who doesn't have the truth in his mouth can't win the trust of others, let alone be their friend.
Don't take advantage of others, drink less and brag less, and don't promise easily. Only by adhering to these three principles when making friends can we make real friends, make ourselves suffer less and avoid into the pit.