Having a tolerant friend is a happy experience. You can make mistakes in front of him and never have to worry about making him unhappy.

As the saying goes: "Take a step back and the sky will be brighter, and endure the calm for a while." Too many times, we are unable to calmly face the injustice that has happened to us, and use harsh words to retaliate against the other party, or even denounce force, just for our own temporary happiness, but in the end we get unexpected disasters. .

The Analects of Confucius mentions, "Bo Yi and Shu Qi do not cherish old grudges, but resentment is based on hope." Boyi and Shu Qi never care about their past hatred and still treat others with tolerance, so others resent them. Therefore there are very few.

The ancients said, "When is it time to retaliate against one another? We must show mercy and forgive others." This actually talks about a kind of tolerant attitude, a broad mind, a kind of unrestrained and unrestrained, A great kindness. In daily life, others inadvertently hurt you, and after experiencing the pain of skin-cutting.

If you can be tolerant of others and show your broad mind with an attitude that is unimaginable to others, your magnanimity and aboveboardness will bring your spirit to a new level and reflect a shining brilliance. .

During the Kangxi period of the Qing Dynasty, Zhang Yingguan, a native of Tongcheng, became a bachelor of Wenhua Palace and the Minister of Etiquette. His neighbor was another large family in Tongcheng, and his owner was Ye Shilang, the imperial minister. Later, the two families had a dispute over the courtyard wall, and Mrs. Zhang wrote a letter about it. After reading the letter, Zhang Ying replied to the old lady: "A letter from a family thousands of miles away is just for the wall, so why not let people stay three feet away?

Wanli The Great Wall is still there today, but the Emperor Qin Shihuang was nowhere to be found.” After seeing the letter, Mrs. Zhang ordered her servants to move back three feet to build the wall. Seeing this, the Ye family was deeply moved and moved back three feet, thus creating the famous “Six Feet Alley”. .

Tolerance means understanding and accommodation. It is the catalyst for integrating interpersonal relationships, the fastener of the bridge of friendship, and the best medicine for relieving knots. A broad mind is the basis for making friends, allowing you to gain friendship and trust.

Of course, learning tolerance does not mean being cowardly. We must use love to purify the world, instead of giving in to everything no matter how big or small. If you learn tolerance, you will learn how to appreciate others; if you treat others with tolerance and continuously improve and enrich your own ideological realm, you will win double appreciation from others.