Life in this world is a process of learning to let go through constant encounters. Life is long, extending to the end of the universe. Life is short, as short as a snap of a finger.
Those days when you can see the end at a glance have developed a strong life that cannot be defeated; those people and things that have been unable to let go have developed a free and easy character.
If you don’t owe the past, you won’t welcome the future. Those hurdles that we have struggled to overcome are all given back to us in the precipitation of time - the "death heart" rooted in human nature.
Learning to "give up" is to think about the essence behind life amid the changes in the world and all things. The most tangled thing in life is the thought of wealth and poverty. But no one can completely control it. They can only leave their efforts to themselves and success or failure to God.
Giving up means that the flower that has already bear fruit will learn to be reborn again. The result does not mean the end, and falling leaves does not mean withering. They are all experiencing the "four seasons" and the process of life toward death.
Those days that have never happened before are coming to us unknowingly. Some people worry too much and spend every moment in pain and sorrow.
But there are always some people who know the hard and soft method of "Tai Chi", live relaxedly and comfortably in shouldering and letting go, and turn ordinary days into a flower.
A factory owner who went bankrupt due to poor management. After paying off his debts and paying the workers' wages, he became impoverished and his wife left him with their children.
He thought about the past days and sighed, "People's support is against them." He understood the old saying that "if you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives, but if you are poor in the city, no one knows you."
On his way home from work after working odd jobs, he knocked over the only dinner of the day with a shake of his hand. Suddenly, a beggar ran over beside him, took the dinner he had dropped, and started eating.
Looking at the beggar with tattered clothes and unkempt hair, he was fascinated. He seemed to see light that he had never seen before. At that moment, he understood that there were always people who were worse off than him in life. Instead of lamenting the impermanence of life, it was better to live well.
He gave up and chose to live diligently every day. Later, by chance, he reopened his own factory and returned to the peak of his career.
Those who can afford it and let it go are the ones who are struggling to pursue success in the process of "giving up". They wear the stars and the moon, but they are leisurely and contented; they are deeply concerned about their fame, but they retreat bravely from the rapids.
From the peak of life to the trough, the huge gap is like a huge wave, which will knock you and me off our feet if we are not careful. People who know how to "give up" are like a "roly-poly" who cannot be defeated. They will not evade or fall down.
"Goodbye" should be the most common approach for people who know how to "give up". This is not a choice to give up your life, but a choice to say goodbye to people or things that have nothing to do with it.
Those liars who have wounded us completely, those people around us who want to put us to death, those villains who attack and exclude us from behind, they give us a heavy hammer and turn the bleeding heart into pieces. My heart was shattered.
In the end, we chose to forgive, choose to let the broken heart calm down, and then no longer trust anyone, just live every day. Because we understand that the greatest revenge is to live better than them.
Young lovers are always depressed after falling out of love, and even feel that they have lost the whole world. They live in a world where "they are only here in the mountains" and cannot see new vitality.
Young people who were deceived by their most trusted friends lost their wealth and even laughed at themselves for making careless friends. They would only spend every day in silence and confusion.
In the end, these people have become the kind of people who "give up their will". They finally understood that those who could not be kept would be freed, and those without personality would be let go.
Life is complicated, but life is also simple. Only after seeing through the gatherings and separations in this world can we understand that "everything is joyful" in our hearts. A simple life is the wealth accumulated from our experiences.
Choosing to say goodbye and say goodbye to the person who left is not a kind of courage.
Things in the world are unpredictable. If you look down on it, you need to stop in time. If you see it through, you need to "give up" in time.
I think most people should like Su Shi's outlook on life. After he was demoted, he indulged in drinking and went boating on the lake. He only wrote, "The boat passed away from now on, and the river and the sea will spend the rest of my life." He chose to forget the pain of frustration.
When the heavy rain poured down, some people chose to flee in panic, but Su Shi looked at the wind and rain with a smile, choosing to "live in the mist and rain for the rest of his life", and finally felt the joy of "there is neither wind or rain nor sunshine" .
No one learns to "give up" at birth. Those who "give up" all learn the true meaning of "giving up" through self-cultivation after working hard in a society at the forefront of society.
Life is a long road filled with twists and turns of human love. Some roads are too long and you can never reach the end, so you have to choose to "turn"; some "love" is too hurtful and can never be made up for, so you have to learn to "give in".
Everyone can say the word "chic" and everyone admires it. Very few people know its connotation. The radical of "three points of water" represents passing away like water, washing away the inner attachments, and finally knowing that "letting go" is freedom.
One day, the young monk asked the Zen master: "Master, what is the true meaning of life?"
Isn't this the same in life? If it is too heavy, learn to let it go and walk lightly; if it is too disappointing, learn to "give up" and know how to live in nirvana.
The dignity of an adult's life is not success, but "giving up" and living the way you want in your heart!