Through such a convenient way, you can easily realize that many high-quality objects that you can't reach at ordinary times are really attractive to those who can't find them.
You can search by conditions from the beginning, which is also a great advantage.
However, everything has two sides.
Even if it's just a chance encounter, it will hurt. ...
You will be sad, angry and feel a waste of time. ......
I am bent on avoiding this situation! So it is important to understand the "danger" part first.
This time, I will introduce six things that you need to pay attention to when making friends with social software!
1. The other person will be much different from what he thinks.
It is no exaggeration to say that photos play a very important role in social software!
Appearance photos are very important for judging people who have never seen them.
A person will unconsciously choose whether it is possible or impossible in an instant, such as "this is my type!" " Or "this face refused" ... "。
However! The only drawback of photos is that they may not be true.
Now, you can use P-chart software to modify it easily and arbitrarily, and even become a completely different person.
It is possible that your face is small when you look at each other's photos, but after the actual meeting, his face is twice as big as you think.
By this time, you should have been cheated yourself.
"If I had known that the other person's face was so big, I wouldn't have communicated with him!"
This is likely to happen when social software makes friends.
So, if you are interested in him, ask him for an original picture without a P picture.
Besides, you'd better use real photos yourself to prevent the other party from thinking that you cheated him.
2. I don't know if the other person's profile is true
Unlike offline dating, most social software will verify your identity.
So, you don't have to worry about hiding your age, but you don't know whether his education, occupation and annual income are true.
When you consider getting married and start planning to get married, the other person's occupation and annual income are very important.
I finally found a man who met my ideal conditions to start dating, and later found out that the information he filled in was false.
If this happens, it will do great harm to blind date women who cherish time like gold. ......
However, it is good to stop the loss in time to end this relationship, but if you fall in love with him, you may just go on like this.
You can't imagine the future development. ......
"True or false personal data" depends on your luck and discriminating ability!
Be skeptical at first, and decide whether you can trust in the process of getting along.
The purpose of the other party is not always purely to make friends.
Using social software means you are looking for someone.
However, there are various "encounters" on it.
In other words, not everyone uses it just because they want a boyfriend and girlfriend.
For example, to get rid of loneliness or want something.
Maybe some people registered on social software for fraudulent purposes.
You may think that others have been cheated, but you never know when it will happen to you.
So remember, no matter how kind and simple you are, the chances of being caught by such people are not zero.
If you are too kind to others, or you think you will be cheated soon, you should be on your guard immediately.
4. Some people in social software are dangerous.
What's even more frightening is that you are also involved in the crime.
No matter how many identities you verify, you can't say that life-threatening things won't happen at all.
In some cases, social software actually touches the red line, but the reality is that it is usually dangerous because it is a convenient world.
You may think "I can't meet", but as long as you live, you don't know if you will meet an accident one day.
Remember, you should protect yourself more. If you are not in danger, you can't assume that you won't be.
But that doesn't mean you can't do anything if you are afraid.
You don't have to be too nervous. There are all kinds of people in the world, but some dangerous people are hidden.
5. Married people will also register.
If only people who are really looking for someone come to social software, that is the ideal situation.
But often some married people sneak in to have fun.
Social software does not stipulate that you must be single to register, so you don't have to submit relevant confirmation materials.
It would be best to distinguish the marriage history, but this is not the case.
Therefore, many people tend to pretend to be single and may cheat others.
It is very taboo for people who are desperately looking for someone, and it really gives people trouble!
So, "looks like a type, just the right age. Career and annual income are perfect! Chatting is very interesting, and I really like it when I meet you! Great, I finally met the right person! "
Even if you are completely in the mood, when you know that he is married, you will have an unspeakable despair.
The key to avoid being harassed by married people is to pay attention to whether there is a slow reply or no reply on weekdays and weekends.
6. It will improve your ideal state.
According to social software that searches for objects by conditions, your ideal type will gradually become higher as you use it.
For example, even if one person thinks "very suitable!" If more types of people appear under the same conditions the next day, they may fall into a cycle.
If this happens, you will always want to match better.
It must be difficult to choose one person from many people.
You don't want to fail, you want the best people.
But I am too picky about the conditions, thinking that I can always meet better ones! This is an act of keeping yourself away from happiness.
And even if you can't decide that a better person will appear, you don't know if you will choose the time when the "better person" will appear.
Therefore, it is very important to know your own market value and avoid such disadvantages.
If you look at each other's situation according to your own situation, you can match the right person without unnecessary greed.
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If you only see dangerous points, you may be afraid to use social software.
But, as I said at the beginning, everything has two sides.
Having shortcomings also means having advantages.
It is important to know its advantages and disadvantages before using it!
Please believe that you can meet an excellent person!