1. Life has no goal. A parent said: "My children surf the Internet every day, and their academic performance is too poor to say. The exam is coming, and he is not in a hurry. His father beat him and scolded him, but he still went his own way. " A survey shows that there are not a few teenagers who are addicted to the internet and give up their studies. They have no hope for study, for the future and for the future. They just try to find themselves in the network and escape from reality. Over time, it leads to the formation of autistic psychology.

2. Lack of self-confidence. Once children who lack self-confidence come into contact with the internet, they will immediately indulge in it and find it difficult to extricate themselves. This is because online games bring children a sense of accomplishment and self-satisfaction, which children can't find in reality and also need, so the network has become a hotbed of children's spiritual indulgence. Children who lack self-confidence are often the most likely to go to the abyss of autism.

3. Poor communication. Most children nowadays are only children. Children rarely have opportunities to communicate and entertain with their peers except in schools and other educational places. Teenagers' rebellious psychology and ideas are often not recognized and affirmed by their parents, and sometimes they are even despised and accused by their parents. Therefore, in the network, children can find "intimate friends" who have the same troubles and worries, which is what children call "the same language." Because of this, children will be divorced from real life, refuse to communicate with parents and teachers, and then have autism.

4. The study pressure is too great. It is every parent's expectation for their children, but the result is often unsatisfactory. Children need an opportunity to vent when they are under pressure. Online games are very attractive to children. For some simple games, sometimes adults will enjoy playing all day, let alone children.

When teenagers encounter problems that they can't solve or are influenced by external factors, they will have some psychological fears. Some people are afraid of going to school, others are afraid of their parents or teachers, and then they will have an escape mentality. In order to escape these psychological fears, teenagers will choose some secondary reinforcement, such as playing truant and surfing the internet, and the internet has become a refuge for teenagers.

When Dong Li failed in the final exam, his father scolded him in front of Dong Li's classmates and said, "Why are you so stupid? Are you a pig brain? " It's useless "Dong Li flushed, embarrassed to the extreme. After a period of time, my father found that Dong Li was depressed a lot, rarely talked to himself and his mother, and his academic performance plummeted. Parents take the initiative to communicate with Dong Li. Dong Li doesn't seem to hear when he goes to the Internet cafe every day, and doesn't even go to school.

Autism is a mental illness, also known as autism, which is mainly caused by social communication barriers, narrow interests, repeated operations and adherence to a fixed lifestyle. Patients tend to adopt a rigid and indifferent way to cope with all kinds of daily life and study, even in new activities.

After consulting a psychologist, I realized that Dong Li's autistic mood was due to his father's improper educational methods, which led his children to lose themselves in the Internet. There are many examples of psychological problems caused by the lack of communication between children like Dong Li and their parents. A paper survey found that 90% teenagers think they are unwilling to communicate with their parents and will not communicate with their teachers. They don't want to communicate with anyone except playing games and making friends online.

This is a typical symptom of autism. Poor communication for a long time is extremely unfavorable to the physical and mental development of teenagers, and it is also the beginning of their autism.

Whether it is a network or a game, it is an illusory world. A person's psychological activities are dominated by the brain, which will respond to various things after harvesting information from the outside world. This is psychology. When a person lives in an unreal world for a long time, the information collected by the brain will definitely be virtualized. This is manifested in online dating, online games and so on. They all have a certain fantasy color, which is different from real life. If the sense of discrimination is not strong, some unrealistic ideas will arise. When the brain is dominated by illusory psychology, spiritual fantasies will inevitably appear. If he indulges in vain fantasies for a long time, this person will be lonely, because he has escaped the intimate feelings between people, and he will indulge in fantasies to meet his personal emotional needs.