Because my parents gave birth to me at the age of 24, they have been urging me to get married as soon as possible. So he arranged my first blind date.
She is 22 years old. Shanghai local female, about 165 in height, relatively thin and good-looking. College graduates who are about to graduate have unknown family conditions.
When we first met, I arrived 10 minutes early, and she arrived 10 minutes late, so she dressed in fashion. The whole date will take about an hour. I drove my dad's car that day to save face!
After that, I intend to take her home. I just passed Ganghui Square. I asked her if we could go to the movies together. She nodded. I tentatively held her hand while watching the movie, and she didn't refuse. It felt good then.
After watching the movie, she began to talk more, so I took the opportunity to accompany her around the Hong Kong Stock Exchange. I bought her a pair of classic black converse canvas shoes, and she also asked me to buy a pair, saying it was more suitable for me.
I'll take her home when it's over.
I was very happy that day. I didn't expect the first blind date to make my heart beat. At the same time, I like that type of girl.
However, after two days of contact, I was surprised to find that she has a boyfriend now and has been dating for a long time. I was confused at that time. I don't know whether she is teasing me or fooling my family. The second time we went shopping, she put her bag on me and then she went to the bathroom.
I answered a phone call for her, and the caller id was piggy. The man on the other end of the phone asked me directly who I was.
As long as you are a man, you will feel very sensitive. Will go there and think about it. Later, when she answered the phone, she quarreled with the opposite side. I'm sorry, I shouldn't answer the phone. She didn't explain anything to me either.
I know I didn't answer the phone correctly, but I have taken her as my girlfriend.
Until the evening when we eat. The real thing happened. While we were eating, her phone rang again, and she pressed it every time. I also know that this matter is definitely not very simple.
Then, I said to her, you answer the phone, as long as you talk, everything can be solved. She told her that this was her ex-boyfriend and they had broken up for a long time.
I believe it. Dinner is over. Women's private words (//Sifang dialect)
When I sent her home, she asked me to go clubbing with her. We went to the bar, and I didn't drink enough. After about three drinks, I began to faint. But what she has been drinking is pure, and she has been swigging. I guess she is in a bad mood.
I know she will get drunk at night, so I haven't been drinking, just drinking coke at most. As the atmosphere of the bar is getting closer and closer, we are getting closer and closer, and her words are getting more and more. I have a general idea. They talked for about 1 year, and the man was very handsome. Others say they are a good match, but during this time together, he feels that his boyfriend is getting worse and worse. He always plays computer games during the day and goes to nightclubs to soak up MM at night. I don't know if he is rich.
I thought to myself, such a man is not as good as me even if he has no money, and he can lose even if he has money.
I don't say how good I am, but I often go shopping with my mother and cook at home. I always take the initiative to clean the room and hand in my salary card. Before the blind date, my monthly expenditure was about 1000 (including transportation, peace is a double happiness), but not clothes.
She was drunk and always wanted to throw up ... so I opened a room and she took the initiative. ...
The next day, I sent her home. However, I began to seriously consider whether this person is suitable for me. In the case of heartbeat, I began to think that she was a little casual. Not to mention her past. But we ML together, and she even took the initiative than me, probably because of drinking. Makes me feel unsafe.
Please give me some advice. I really don't know how to deal with such a thing. I'm very excited. I can see that we both care about each other.