Look at what she said, it's not that you have no money, just asking. I think there is nothing wrong with it. It's your problem that you haven't saved enough down payment for your house after working for 7 years. Why do you blame others for abandoning you?
Other girls didn't say anything about you. It's just that you're making excuses for yourself Don't think that all the girls on this dating platform are casual. Don't mess around if you don't like it.
There are also many people around me playing this app, both men and women, and most of them have found suitable objects on it. At least now, they have started to talk about marriage. Of course, some of them are purely for dating, but they are very frank and direct, unlike you who do legal things in the name of love and turn around and say how they are and despise them!