Since "many friends mean many roads" and "roads" are opportunities, it should be good to make more friends. Some people think that it is difficult to make friends. In fact, the difficulty lies in exchanging hearts for hearts. As long as you are sincere, pay attention to everything, and sow the seeds of friendship at any time, the flowers of friendship will surely bloom everywhere.
As long as you pay attention, you can find opportunities to sow friendship anytime and anywhere. For a person who is in trouble, a cup of hot water or a bowl of hot soup may help him overcome the difficulty and regain the courage and confidence to make progress; for a person who is stubborn, a heart-to-heart talk may be able to make him come to his senses. Understand, change your attitude towards life, and re-choose your life goals. Even in daily life, a trusting look, a friendly smile, and a burst of approving applause can bring warmth to people and win respect and favor.
As the saying goes: If you want others to love you, you must first love others. If you want to make true friends, you must always have a charitable and adult mind, so that you can store up favor debts for yourself, which will come in handy at a critical moment in the future.
A majestic lion walks leisurely in the forest.
"Help, please help me!" Suddenly, a cry for help came from a distance. The lion immediately stopped and ran quickly in the direction of the sound.
Oh, it turned out that the little mouse had his feet pinned down by the stone. Without saying a word, the lion stretched out his paw and rolled the stone to the side.
The little mouse took a deep breath, rubbed his swollen leg and said, "Thank you, I would be miserable if you didn't come."
The lion shook his head gently: "It doesn't matter, I happened to be passing by here, it was just a little effort."
On this day, the lion went to the elephant to do something. Suddenly he felt as if he had stepped on something, "It's broken!" Before he could react, a big net had risen from the ground and hoisted him up. He roared angrily and struggled desperately, but the net tightened tighter and tighter.
He heard the hunter's footsteps and calls getting closer and closer, thinking that this time it was really over.
Just when he was desperate, he found a small black shadow running up from under the tree. He looked closely and saw that it was a little mouse. The little mouse quickly climbed onto the net and bit the thick ropes one by one with its sharp teeth.
The lion fell from the net with a "hoo".
"It's so dangerous! Run quickly." The little mouse jumped on the lion's back, and the lion flew away with the little mouse on its back, and the hunter's gunfire came from behind...
At a safe place, the lion touched the little mouse's head: "How can I thank you? You saved my life!" The little mouse smiled faintly and said, "It's nothing. Since you helped me last time, We are good friends!"
The lion said with emotion: "It's great to have friends!"
Friendship is priceless in this world. Everyone needs help and everyone needs care. As long as you give, you will get something in return even if you don't want to get something in return. Because people are always more willing to give opportunities to someone who cares about others.
On a rainy afternoon, an old woman walked into a Philadelphia department store. Most of the counter staff ignored her, but one young man asked if they could do anything for her. When she replied that she was just waiting for the rain to stop, the young man didn't try to sell her something she didn't need or turn away. Instead, he brought her a chair.
After the rain stopped, the old woman said thank you to the young man and asked him for a business card. A few months later, the shop owner received a letter requesting that the young man be sent to Scotland to receive an order to decorate an entire castle. This letter was written by the old woman, and she was the mother of the American steel magnate Carnegie. By the time the young man was packing for Scotland, he had been promoted to partner in the department store.
We all have some needs in our hearts, some are urgent and some are unimportant. When we encounter help from others when we are in urgent need, we are often grateful and even unforgettable for the rest of our lives. Giving a carrot when we are on the verge of starvation is completely different from giving a mountain of gold when we are rich. The latter makes us more noble, but the former is a life-saving act.
In order to prepare for tuition, a student from a poor area decided to sell some small commodities. In order to sell these goods, he sometimes had to beg people for some food to satisfy his hunger.
One day, he knocked on the door of a house, and the person who opened the door was a little girl. He lost courage as soon as he saw it and thought: How can a big boy beg for food from a little girl? So I just had a glass of boiled water to quench my thirst.
The little girl saw that he was very hungry, so she brought him a glass of boiling water and a few slices of bread. He quickly took the food and ate it hungrily. The little girl on the side couldn't help but smile secretly when she saw him eating like this.
After eating, he said gratefully: "Thank you, how much should I give you?"
The little girl smiled and said: "No need, our family has a lot of these foods. . ”
He felt so lucky to receive such warm care from others in a strange place.
Many years later, the little girl contracted a rare disease, and many doctors were helpless. The girl's family heard that there was a doctor with very good medical skills, and they came to him to see if there might be hope for a cure, so they quickly took her for treatment. With the doctor's full treatment and long-term care, the little girl finally recovered.
On the day she was discharged from the hospital, the nurse gave the little girl a medical bill. She almost didn’t have the courage to open it and read it, guessing that she might have to work hard all her life to pay back the bill. Finally, she opened it, but only saw the following words written in the signature column:
A cup of boiling water and a few slices of bread are enough to repay all the medical expenses.
Her eyes suddenly filled with tears, and then she realized that the attending doctor was the poor student back then.
Giving sympathy and help to people in trouble to tide them over can best arouse the other person's gratitude and thus form friendship. However, unless you are your closest friend, you should also prevent being too kind to others and making them feel inferior or even hate you, because firstly, if they are unable to repay you, it will become a psychological burden; secondly, you will feel that you are incompetent, and this It is revealed due to your "ability". Therefore, you must be merciful everywhere, but you must grasp the degree of mercy.
You can be poor and embarrassed in life, but you can't be without friends. Therefore, we must be merciful everywhere, make more friends, and use sincere friendship and help to jointly build a building of friendship and create a better life.