Behavior after falling out of love

Behavior after falling out of love. When we are together, we are very loving, and men and women will also be very happy, but when the relationship breaks down People will break up, and breaking up is what we often call falling out of love. So what is the behavior after falling out of love? Behavior after falling out of love 1

1. Cry loudly.

After falling out of love, many girls may behave very normally and behave the same as usual in front of others. However, if you observe carefully, you will find that they often fall into silence and become distracted. situation, this actually shows that they are very sad in their hearts, but they don't want to vent their emotions when there are many people, and they don't want to show their fragile side in front of many people.

Therefore, when there is no one around, they are likely to be unable to control their emotions and find a quiet place to cry, and the crying will become more and more serious.

2. Eat and drink.

After crying, girls feel a lot better in their hearts, but they will not be freed from the sadness of broken love so quickly. They may look for other ways to divert their emotions, such as eating. Drinking is one of them. For many girls, eating can make them feel happy, but when they are in love, they have to ensure their figure and appearance, so they eat in a very regular way.

But now that they have broken up, they no longer need to control themselves and will vent all their emotions through eating.

3. Drink to drown your sorrows.

In fact, many times drinking alcohol is something boys do when they are falling out of love, but there are also girls who use this method to temporarily forget the pain of falling out of love. Generally speaking, girls will choose this method only when they are unable to get over the state of lovelorn. As long as they can temporarily forget each other and forget all the memories about the two people, they would rather let themselves get drunk. Even if they feel uncomfortable when they wake up the next day, they will still do it. At least the physical pain is better than the heartache.

4. Travel to relax.

In fact, this is a method that many girls will take now, because they know that it is difficult for them to get over a broken relationship, so compared with methods such as overeating or alcoholism, they will still choose more The easy way. Therefore, many people will choose to go to a place that can relieve their mood. As long as they can calm down and think, they will no longer be stuck in memories. This method is very effective compared to the previous ones. Symptoms after a broken love 2

1. What are the symptoms after a broken love

1. Sadness, pain, anger and despair. After some people suddenly fall out of love, they will first feel great emotional sadness and pain, followed by anger and despair, which may lead to reckless and abnormal behavior. Such as committing suicide, committing suicide for love, raping others, etc.

2. Strong passion. This situation usually happens to some lovelorn people whose feelings have been deceived and played with. In order to vent their anger and dissatisfaction, they... They may take irrational and extreme actions, or even harm society and others with their own ruin.

3. Strong sense of inferiority. Some lovelorn people develop a strong sense of inferiority due to their frustrated self-esteem, and some even refuse love from then on, becoming withdrawn and eccentric. In severe cases, they may have suicidal thoughts or behaviors.

4. Taking anger out on others or things. After falling out of love, some people tend to vent their negative emotions on people or things. If you lose your temper easily, feel unhappy about everything, and get angry easily, this kind of unprovoked anger often leads to extreme behavior.

2. What to do if you fall out of love

1. Ask your own heart if you still love each other

Some people are obviously in love, but they also make love. If you don't know what result you want, don't break up because of quarrels or anger. Losing love in this way will make you regret it for the rest of your life. If you still love the other person, you can choose to calm down, but you must tell the other person and don't make the other person too sad.

2. Don’t make excuses for yourself

If you really don’t love him, you should let him go decisively. Don’t try to contact him because of loneliness or frustration. Don't just want to find someone to rely on to revive your love because you are sad. Such a love is meaningless.

3. Clean up items related to him

Although it is not easy to let go, it is best to clean up or hide all the items full of memories at the beginning. Bar. Otherwise, every item of his can touch your heart and arouse your longing for him.

4. Participate in some outdoor activities and social activities

Social interactions can help you get out of trouble. Beautiful outdoor scenery can make you feel comfortable and regulate your emotions. Making some new friends can also help distract you. In short, while you still have free time, give yourself more opportunities to make friends. If you have someone you like, you might as well hang out.

3. What are the troubles of falling out of love

The beginning of love is beautiful, because it is called mutual love, but its cruel side is that most of the time it hurts one person, not both. personal. When the thought "I don't want to be with you anymore" occurs, it always occurs unilaterally. Basically, this thought will not occur to two people at the same time.

Managing a relationship always requires investment of energy and emotion. The emergence of love is always unreasonable, and falling out of love is also an unreasonable thing. At the beginning, I always felt that we could not reach that step, and we would be together forever. But when it came time to break up, the once-universal vows became so ignorant, and the good things they once had turned into a dream. But you don't want to wake up.

We used to be so familiar with each other, and your small actions will tell you what you are going to do. Falling in love, knowing clearly what you want, but can't do anything anymore, that is no longer your right. Falling out of love means being a stranger who is familiar with each other. When you meet again, your heart will hurt. After all, it once belonged to you, but now you no longer have the courage to own it.

In the past, two people participated in activities, but after losing love, I have to go back to eating by myself, carrying my own bags, filling the water dispenser by myself, getting off work by myself, and watching movies alone. There is no longer a life where the left hand holds the right hand, there is no longer a solid shoulder for me to rely on, I can no longer wipe her tears, I can no longer wipe the rice grains from the corner of her mouth, I can no longer tie her shoelaces, I can no longer see. The beauty of each other’s smiles.

Broken love will make your heart hurt. People are all emotional animals, and their ability to see through the world of mortals is still limited. If you have been hurt, you must make yourself stronger. Your sadness will not be exchanged for comfort. Your pain Only you know it, so no matter how painful it is, if you endure it, you will get used to it and it will no longer hurt.

4. How to relieve the pain of broken love

The company of family and friends is the best way to get out of the shadow. Lovers will leave, but family and true friends will not, but don’t leave them alone. Punish your own pain on your family, because your family is the one who loves you the most!

Learn to divert your attention. You can temporarily put down your work and go travel to relax, or you can do something that you felt before. Things that you are interested in but have not done yet, diverting your attention can make you forget the things that worry you.

Don’t jump into the next relationship quickly. Having just experienced pain, you may just need comfort, and you don't really like the other person. This kind of hasty behavior is irresponsible to yourself and the other person!

Have confidence in yourself.

Don't deny yourself because of a passing relationship, but give yourself a positive psychological hint: Such an excellent self deserves to be entrusted by better people! You cannot give up on yourself and make yourself and your companions around you feel more sorry for yourself.

You can use busy methods to temporarily forget the pain. Put some things on hold first. When you calm down and think about it again, some things are not as painful as you thought, but you will feel Relief

The last but the most important point is to treat yourself and your ex with a blessing attitude, and never use extreme methods to deal with problems. This will not only fail to restore the relationship, but will also make the other party disgusted. It will also cause great pain to your life. Always remember that you are just one step closer to the person who is suitable for you. Behavior after falling out of love 3

1. Loss. Generally speaking, most girls' psychological performance when they first break up is relatively disappointed. Because it is difficult for them to accept such a result, but more of it is the psychological gap of losing the person they like very much. Although they want to show that they don't care and are very relaxed, some of their actions will still show their true mental state. For example, they often fall into memories and look at a place in a daze.

2. Complain. After many girls fall out of love, they may find some of their good friends to accompany them. Sometimes they will start to say bad things about the other person as they talk, because they feel that this way they can give some comfort to themselves who are falling out of love. Only if the other person is not that good, then you will not feel like you have missed out if you lose this person. But in fact, they are just giving themselves an excuse to let go, and many times they cannot convince themselves.

3. Anxiety. Some girls may be more confident in themselves, and they feel that the other party will definitely come to save them, so when they first break up, they may behave normally, as if nothing has happened. But after a period of time, if the other party has not made any redeeming moves, they will start to become anxious. On the one hand, they want to contact the other party, but they also feel that this is a shameful thing.

4. Disheartened. For girls, the period after a breakup must be very sad, even painful. But when they realize that the two of them are completely over, they will slowly open up their hearts, or they will become completely discouraged. Therefore, when they face their exes again, they can face it more calmly, but deep down they still don't want to see each other.