There are eight stages of falling in love with an avoidant attachment personality:

1. Initial stage: In the early stages of the relationship, both parties begin to have a good impression of each other and have frequent contact.

2. Contact stage: Both parties begin to build trust and enter a state of love.

3. Love stage: Both parties begin to enter a deep state of love and become more emotionally dependent on each other.

4. Conflict stage: In the process of love, both parties begin to have differences and conflicts, and these problems need to be resolved before they can move on.

5. Conflict escalation: Problems and conflicts intensify, requiring greater efforts to resolve.

6. Relationship crisis: The love relationship begins to be in crisis, and both parties need to work together to maintain it.

7. Breakup stage: If the relationship crisis cannot be resolved, the relationship will eventually break up.

8. After the breakup: After the breakup, both parties need time to accept the fact and gradually recover from the breakup.

In love, avoidant attachment personality may show characteristics such as reluctance to establish an intimate relationship with the other party, less trust in the other party, less willing to express emotions, and less willing to spend time with the other party. . Therefore, being in a relationship with an avoidant attachment personality requires patience, understanding, and support. At the same time, if you also have an avoidant attachment personality, you also need to be aware of and work hard to change your behavior patterns in order to establish a healthy love relationship.