Especially in heterosexual communication, we should pay special attention to all our words and deeds. After all, we are heterosexual, and there may be many people who don't care about this. They think they are good friends and have nothing to take care of. Friends need mutual trust and support.
But sometimes we must pay attention to some things, otherwise it may lead to many unnecessary things, which may lead to the breakdown of your relationship or hurt others. In heterosexual communication, no matter how good your relationship is, you should keep the bottom line.
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Don't interfere in each other's emotional problems.
Emotional problems have always been personal problems of others. If others don't want to be public, don't want to make such a big noise, just want to live quietly, that's their business. You have no right to interfere, and others don't want you to evaluate their feelings, so don't discuss it, otherwise it will easily make people angry or even annoyed.
In heterosexual communication, too, even if your relationship is particularly good, you should talk about everything, don't interfere with each other's emotional problems, and don't evaluate his other half. First of all, you have no right. Secondly, you will make him feel uncomfortable. No matter how their relationship develops, you must not interfere.
If you forcibly interfere with his emotional problems and think that you are his best friend, you should give him advice and help him share it. This idea is right, but you should also divide the situation. Don't get involved in emotional problems casually. That's someone else's private affair.
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Don't have too much physical contact.
In heterosexual communication, we should also pay attention to the fact that two people should not have too much physical contact, because every part of a person's body is sensitive, and others will definitely react when they touch themselves. After a long time, it is easy to stimulate their inner hormones, and it is easy for two people to have feelings.
Physical contact is the bottom line between heterosexual friends. If you want to remain good friends, don't touch it, because if you break it, it will easily break the pure friendship between you. And if the other person is not interested in you, it is estimated that you may not even be ordinary friends.
Therefore, if you want to continue to be friends, it is best not to have intimate contact beyond friendship. After all, you are just friends, not lovers, not family, and you should avoid suspicion occasionally.
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Don't play ambiguous.
If you really regard him as your good friend in heterosexual communication, don't play with him. If the other person knows, it will break his heart. After all, he regards you as a friend, and the opposite sex may mistakenly think that you like him. He will be particularly angry when he knows that you only use him as a spare tire.
If you have a very good relationship, you can't break his heart. If you like it, you should say it, and you may still be together. But if you don't really like it, don't be nice to him casually and let him misunderstand. Friends are friends. Don't be nicer to him than friends. If you don't really want to chase him, don't give him the courage to break your friendship.
Therefore, if you want to be good friends, don't break these bottom lines, otherwise your relationship may be worse than before and you will become strangers to each other.