1. "Long-term chatting" can give people the illusion of being in love. Under normal circumstances, both parties will be in the "blind typing stage" and mistakenly think that the other party likes them first. Generally, girls are more likely to have this kind of love illusion, because they are relatively passive in relationships, and their minds are delicate and sensitive. They are good at capturing the other person's attitude and guessing the other person's emotional direction through words and expressions. As a result, I unknowingly got stuck in the mud, but I didn't know that the other party was just "raising a fish pond".
2. And if you chat for a long time, it is difficult to say whether you can make the other person like you. It is true that you will easily like the other person. Even if there is no feeling of love, there will still be feelings of dependence and ambiguity. After that, you will look forward to his chat replies and start to speculate on his thoughts. Coupled with his good looks and interesting style, it is easy for you to feel like "Hey, this guy is good, I shouldn't miss it." . You will unconsciously sink deeper and look for topics. If he doesn't reply to you or replies slowly, you will start to think wildly, and even the most important study work will be put aside.
3. You become sensitive and easily sad, but he doesn’t know all this. It may even be your own imagination. In his eyes, you may be just an ordinary friend or, more cruelly, you may be just a netizen. . You feel like you are irrational, like an idiot, your suggestive confessions were politely rejected, and you wake up. Are my feelings for him really as deep as I thought? I tried not to contact him or pay attention to him. When I faced his messages, I simply answered him and stopped looking for topics. It turned out that I thought too deeply about myself and became detached. I discovered that real life is the most important thing.
4. You habitually look at his message box, look through previous chat history, or simply delete the chat history, but you still can't help but stare at the conversation box in a daze, no matter how strong your healing ability is. Maybe you just forget about it, and you will subconsciously check if he is there when you play the game, but so what if he is online? You are always the one who is tormented by this repeated torture. I forgot about him, well I already forgot about him, but forgetting is not as simple as what I said. I began to be cruel and stopped contacting him. It was true that I stopped contacting him, but I always felt that something was missing. I felt that I was just one person from beginning to end.
5. But please stop and think about it rationally. How many times have you met? Have you ever hung out together? Frequently? Do his friends know about you? Do you know about his dating status (meaning has he chatted like this with other girls)? Such concerns about gains and losses make you fall into a false love, and you even feel that you are a girl in love. You start searching online for "What are the signs of liking?" and "Why does he like it?" "Don't reply to messages", "What should I do", "Tarot divination of feelings", etc., and then comfort yourself with some answers that can be matched.
You spend your precious little time on these things, your study and work are wasted, and your chats with your friends are all about complaining and guessing. Your friends may be a little annoyed and don’t say anything to save face. , you frequently update your dynamic circle of friends, hoping to get his attention, and even frantically check the page views every few minutes to see if he is there, feeling sad that he likes others but doesn't like you.
To sum up, if you chat with someone you like for a long time, you cannot be sure whether the other person likes you, or just finds it interesting to chat with you, or the other person is relatively empty and leisurely, and yours Appearing, it just meets his needs, so if he is obsessed with these, he might as well let himself live happily every day! ! !