This situation bothers you because I met many such people when I was in college and we didn’t associate with them. You will feel very sad and confused inside. In fact, the reasons are: 1. College is not like middle school, where classmates stayed together every day and took intensive courses. Now in college, everyone has their own circle of friends, whether they are classmates or roommates, they may not always hang out together. Second, I personally feel that when I get to college, many people around me suddenly become very powerful, and everyone has their own agenda (most people). I think, first of all, you should find out your own reasons. In many cases, you spend less time with each other and don't understand each other. You can be more proactive in dealing with others and don't worry about what will happen. The best way to start a situation like this is to find one or two acquaintances who you personally feel will not be so snobbish or stingy, and invite them to go out to dinner together, or go for a walk together, and talk to others about what is on your mind more. There won't always be nothing left to say. Many situations depend on personal adaptability and organizational skills. For example, sometimes everyone is bored and it is already spring. If you can organize a few familiar friends to go on a spring outing together, it will be a good choice. In the past, I often found friends and boys and girls to go on spring outings together. Sigh~~ It’s so wonderful to think about it~~