In fact, this problem is not recent, and many children will have this phenomenon after transfer or transfer. In this case, some parents feel that there is no need to worry, and their children can play anywhere, but this is not the case. When children come to a strange environment, they will feel afraid and shy, and they will feel lonely more easily.
At this time, our parents should do something. The following small series will teach you how to help children, and you can quickly integrate into new groups in just three steps.
1, let children bring small gifts.
Usually children are easily attracted by some novel things, and sharing is the best way to promote communication between children. In fact, children are much simpler than we thought. Sometimes a candy can bring two girls closer together. Letting children go to school, putting more candy in his pocket, or letting her fold some paper cranes for everyone can quickly narrow the distance between children.
At the same time, parents should also guide their children to make friends and give them gifts, but if others force them to ask for gifts, they must learn to refuse or tell their parents when they get home.
2. Dress simply and generously
It is not difficult to find that most children, especially those in primary school and junior high school, are "Yan Kong", and they tend to show a good impression on those children who are beautifully dressed and clean. Especially for transfer students, if parents want their children to teach their friends more easily at school, they must control their children's "first impression" in front of their classmates, but they should not let their children behave sloppy.
Children don't have to dress brightly, but at least they should be clean and hygienic. The first impression is very important for children to make friends. As long as other children have a good impression on their children and are willing to make friends with their children, the rest will follow!
3. Start looking for friends.
When children come to a new environment and don't know everything around them, it is of course unrealistic to want to make friends with everyone. At this time, children must be taught not to eat a fat man in one bite. From making friends, we will gradually get familiar with the people around us. This small goal is very simple. As long as you are familiar with a "small landlord", it is not easy to integrate it into his life.
Therefore, children should pay attention to skills when making friends. In normal life, you can also consciously cultivate your child's ability to make friends. For example, you can sign up for some summer camps for your children, or often take your children to see some exhibitions, which is more conducive to making like-minded friends.
Moreover, if we really have very good friends in our old school, we can also let them keep in touch by phone or letter, so that he can feel that friends are always there!