One: Keep your word, but don't break your word. For some people who break their promises, their performance is hypocritical. We should stay away from him. We all like to associate with honest people, so that we will become very happy in the process of getting along. If you associate with some dishonest people, you will be very tired. Because he never keeps his promise, even if he promises you something, he will choose to forget it in the blink of an eye. Therefore, when you associate with this kind of person, even if you say something to him, he shows great concern, but in the blink of an eye, he will choose to forget.
As a matter of fact, if you make friends with people who are dishonest and duplicitous, you will never accomplish anything when you want to expect them to do it. Therefore, when we make friends, we must stay away from these people. If you associate with these people, your life will become particularly chaotic. Moreover, for those who break their promises and are duplicitous, they will covet profits and do things that are beneficial to them. If you treat them badly, they will stay away from you and even set you up. Therefore, we must choose to stay away from such people.
Two: Be wise after the event. Some people who are wise after the event are generally hypocritical. In fact, we should stay away from such people. Many people will say after the incident, I think, I guessed from the beginning, for such people, hindsight is wise. Moreover, we never admit that we have made some mistakes, and we will shift the responsibility to others, so when we meet such people, we should stay away from them. Because such people are hypocritical, if they really know that something is going to happen, they will definitely say it in advance, so they will pretend to be hypocritical because they don't know.
For some people who are wise after the event, after an event, he will make a long speech to express some of his views. Although his views are hated by others, he will continue to speak. If he analyzes the matter from beginning to end, he will pretend to be suitable for Zhuge Liang. In fact, such people are particularly hypocritical, and it is precisely because of such people that we should stay away from them.
In fact, everyone's temper is different, and everyone's personality is different, so when we associate with others, we must find a like-minded person. Only in this way can we become happy in the process of communication. If you find a very hypocritical person as a friend, you will become hypocritical in your later life, so that you will become very tired in the process of getting along.