Invalid social interaction, the so-called invalid social interaction, refers to invalid contacts. Educated by adults since childhood, we should get along well with others. But, calm down and think about it, what is the real purpose of our contacts? -Exchange of interests. Can't I hope he can help me when I need it again in the future? What I want is this opportunity for him to help me in the future. It's not nice to say, but it is. Moreover, such connections also have one thing in common, that is, they can all be exchanged fairly with you, and the value you pay is fair to the value you can get in the future. Of course, what is said here is the general situation, excluding those who are more scheming to achieve their goals through some means.

"Regarding what is' ineffective social interaction', a netizen said:' You are always unhappy when eating with him, and you are always miserable when dealing with him. When you are with him, you always feel tired.

In August of 20 16, a picture on the internet caught fire and gradually "gained the upper hand": "You cut wood, he herded sheep, and you talked with him all day. His sheep are full. Where's your firewood? "

The idea or conclusion this picture wants to express may be simple-put an end to "ineffective social interaction".

So, what is "ineffective social interaction"? The following scene may be regarded as a representative: at a party, I communicated with a group of people who can't remember each other's last name. You praised me for getting along well, I praised you for your good health, and exchanged words like "You are tired and I am tired, and life is not easy". From the beginning of eating to the end of the party ... Although I exchanged contact information, I am afraid I can't remember who this is after reading the name in the address book one year later.

The key reason why the chat between the woodcutter and the shepherd is dismissed as "ineffective social communication" is that their behavior does not meet the requirements of "friendship of interests": they have not gained benefits or exchanged resources in their profession or specific work, so the chat is "ineffective".

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