Although introverted boys talk less, they think more and do less. When an introvert is thinking about whether to tell someone something, an extrovert has already told everyone around him. Therefore, once an introvert falls in love, he is usually worried that his bad words will lead to the failure of love. Psychologists tell us that with the deepening of love, there will be less and less dialogue between two people. If you have ever been in love, no matter whether you are extroverted or introverted, you can certainly recall the scene when you looked at your lover for a long time without words. Therefore, if an introverted boy wants to find a girlfriend, the first thing to do is to let go of his ideological burden. Don't think that introversion is a character defect. In fact, sometimes introverted men will win the love of girls. Studies have found that boys who are slightly shy are more likely to be liked by girls.

2. Psychological construction is very important.

How do introverted boys find girlfriends? Whether a boy is introverted/extroverted is just a classification of personality. In fact, whether he is introverted or extroverted, there is no difference between good and bad. It's just that so far, most people think extroverts are easier to communicate with. Many times, we don't need to sell ourselves, and extroverts have already begun to express communication signals to you. So the broad masses of the people feel extroverted and easy to get along with. Introverts want to change, they just need to change their behavior. Participate in the communication with friends more actively, convince yourself and express your feelings and opinions more.

3. Gradually increase the familiarity of the batch.

When introverted boys have a certain foundation in communication with girls, they can choose to break through, meet once or twice, and then they will gradually become familiar with natural timidity.

Step 4 be polite to others

Whenever you treat others with courtesy, others will treat them with courtesy, that is to say, "take care of your heart", which helps to relieve mental tension. Sometimes, a "thank you", a smile or a passing courtesy can make you feel welcome. Remember, the attitude of others towards you reflects your self-image to some extent. The same is true of chasing girls.

5, more contact with girls' girlfriends and friends.

If you want to chase a girl, you must first contact her friends. So you can know what kind of personality she is and whether she is suitable for you. Moreover, birds of a feather flock together, and what kind of friends she has is her character. Moreover, through the recommendation and help of her friends, she can put in a lot of good words for you and make it easier to catch up with her.

6. Learn to sum up learning.

In the process of communicating with girls, we must learn to sum up and learn. Why are you weak and afraid when others can sweet talk? In fact, everyone is the same. As long as you keep summing up, you will learn a lot!