The gangsters are actually a group of self-centered and pitiful people, but please do not pity them.
How to deal with it? First, determine whether they are gangsters. Everyone’s evaluation standards and feelings are different, so I can’t say anything. When you meet someone who is arrogant with your friends, it doesn't matter whether you argue with them, make your face red-faced or deal with them calmly. As long as you are not a quarrelsome person, it doesn't matter, because you will only get angry and depressed once or twice, and it will be easy for you to reconcile. He will still help you if something goes wrong, don't blame others at will, otherwise it will definitely affect your original interpersonal relationship.
The reason why bullies always argue with others is because they are willing to show off their sense of superiority and make people think they are awesome or something like that. They need to show superior strength, broad vision and unique perspective on problems. 's perspective. We must accept the fact that Gangjing has low emotional intelligence and give up the idea of ??transforming him because we cannot communicate with him at all. The only thing I can do is to broaden my circle of friends, learn more about things I don’t know, and communicate with other partners with whom I can talk, so that I can calm down the aggressive people and pick fights with whomever they like. I can’t afford to hide if I can’t offend them. ?.
The gangster shows off, hurts other people's feelings, and takes pleasure in doing so - this morbid psychology occurs because he or she has something missing inside and needs to overshadow others when talking to them. can make up for it. We should have less contact with gangsters and reduce the number of head-to-head confrontations with them. There are so many people in the company, so it would be better not to have contact with them. When you find that the bully is showing signs of raising his bar, you should change the subject immediately, stop talking to him, and let him bring trouble on his own. After a long time, Gang Jing will find it boring and start to reflect.