One of the secrets: clever words
Although the office is a tiny place, there are rumors one after another, and the lethality is incredible. How to protect yourself in the office is really the most important thing.
Avoid sensitive topics and don't discuss other people's year-end awards and other topics that you don't like to tell others.
Don't complain to colleagues at will, express your dissatisfaction with the company system, and pass it on to the boss carefully, you won't even have a chance to defend yourself.
Be a reserved person, no matter how rich or poor you are, don't show it to others. For private life, we should keep the right to privacy. Don't let the boss think that you are a person who can't control his emotions.
Concealing your ambition and telling the world with great fanfare that you want to take the position of XXX is tantamount to declaring war on your colleagues and even your boss. Beware of "death before death".
If the boss is angry with you, you should keep your own style, be neither supercilious nor supercilious, and handle it properly. Finally, you can tell your boss that you are fully prepared and ask him to speak frankly. You will come back to life. But if it is your fault, you sincerely apologize and make up for your fault.
Want to be a popular OL? Then please don't be the BMW in the office. Shut your mouth at the right time, and you will look more lovely. Don't dump your junk information regardless of other people's ideas, and don't show off your gossip and personal problems to an unfamiliar person.
The second secret: a shortcut to finding a job.
When you step into the interview room, will your heart beat faster to 120 beats/second? No matter how amiable the interviewer looks, everything he says will still make your palms sweat. Every question you ask him gives you a headache, but it may still be irrelevant ... what should I do?
The interviewer's first impression of you is very important. Before starting a formal interview with him, a little prelude can add a little impression to you.
You can find some emotional relaxation topics. You'd better see some of his hobbies (for example, wheat-colored skin shows that he loves outdoor sports very much, and the obvious E-era characteristics in his speech tell you that he is also a cyber-race). Try talking to him. Remember, in the process of chatting, you should respond to his words in time and say something that won't "bump into" yourself, so that he can improve his attitude towards you.
With a good start, you should answer the interviewer's questions selectively during the interview. For example, the interviewer asks you to talk about your weaknesses. In the face of your previous failures, you can focus on finding problems and improving yourself, and be honest about your failures, but don't exaggerate them. This will make the interviewer leave a good impression on you. You are sincere, capable and capable of self-improvement.
After the interview, ask more questions to the interviewer you are already familiar with. At this time, you can ask some questions according to the conversation in the interview. For example, the company's personnel structure, the main purpose of this recruitment, the future development of recruiters and so on.
The third secret: introduction from a strange friend
How can you make others think that you are a taciturn person at a party like a concentration camp for beautiful women and handsome men? Don't say there is no one you know here. In fact, some people who look very close are probably new friends. As long as you say the first sentence bravely, you have already succeeded halfway.
First of all, you can observe people around you (or people you are interested in) to see if they have anything special, such as exotic accessories or a watch that you also like very much. Talking about these details may immediately interest them. It's best to choose a lively topic, and a happy smile will instantly pull you away.
When you meet people who are interested, in order to pave the way for the second meeting, you might as well call them by their first names and tell some harmless jokes and stories to leave a relaxed and harmonious impression on each other.
But it should be noted that in conversation, try not to ask questions that can only make people answer yes orno. In that case, it is tantamount to killing your conversation. Give people space to start a topic. Besides, don't say anything too casually, otherwise you may offend your new friends and make all your previous efforts useless.