Know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle.
Listening can reveal each other's true intentions.
And you can make the other person trust you and like you.
When a person is willing to listen to himself,
You will have a sense of accomplishment and intimacy.
Will be more willing to contact each other.
Therefore, good listening is half the success of communication.
Step 2 pay tribute
Don't be stingy with your praise,
Everyone wants each other's approval,
When you express your love and admiration for each other,
The other party will let their guard down on you.
Your next communication meeting will be much easier.
The other party is also willing to make friends with you.
Think about it,
Who wants to be with a mean person,
It is frustrating that he opposes everything you say.
Dong Qing is actually a person with high emotional intelligence. I remember in a program, a farmer uncle who only studied for four years but loved poetry came to answer questions. Dong Qing said: "Because that poem, like a little bit of green in the desert, has always brought him some hope and some longing. It has been watered with limited water, slowly breaking through the ground and growing again until today. So even if your answer is wrong, it is the most beautiful mistake in this scene. Through such a few words of praise, my uncle's nervousness was eliminated.
3. Physical exercise
When the other person communicates with you,
You can smile or nod from time to time to show that you are listening and agreeing.
If you're expressionless,
The other person may think that you don't like him or are not interested in the topic.
Then communication between you is very difficult.
4. Strengthen interaction
The so-called "communication" is to express their views to each other.
Carry out collision and running-in.
You can't keep talking.
When you finish an idea, you can