Classmate A: I think surfing the Internet has many advantages. You can not only look up information to study, but also play games and watch movies. Anything is convenient anyway. You can study online without going to school. This is the real "scholar doesn't go out to know what's going on in the world."
Classmate B: Now that the network adopts virtual environment, minors are more easily attracted and seduced. Because there are all kinds of difficulties and heavy learning tasks in the real society, and the virtual world can often be avoided, which will also make minors lost by the network, so I think it is better to stay away from the network.
Classmate C: What about surfing the Internet? You should surf the Internet in your spare time. For example, after finishing homework, you can relax on the Internet, find some learning materials by the way, and learn more about knowledge outside books, which will not make life boring.
Classmate Ding: There are often things that minors want to do but can't do, and there are some unhealthy websites. There are many online games, some of which are cheated in chat. Once they are addicted to the internet, they will get out of hand. Not only will it delay your study and damage your health, but it may also lead you astray. Not to say that you can't surf the Internet, but to surf the Internet in a civilized way.
In the process of investigation, I also heard of an example: two children stole money from home for surfing the Internet and stayed home for seven days and seven nights. For seven days and seven nights, the two children never stopped surfing the Internet except eating and going to the toilet. There are countless examples like this, which shows that there are still many minors addicted to the internet.
Others, although not invaded by computers, jumped from tall buildings because they watched a lot of martial arts science fiction films, in order to find those heroes. This not only makes people feel ridiculous, but also makes people angry that these film and television competitions, which usually seem to relieve people's troubles and make people relax, have such great harm. Due to the immaturity of minors, their ability of identification, discrimination and control is not strong. Driven by curiosity, minors often do things that they can't control.
We have also investigated several Internet cafes, and found that there are no signs outside these Internet cafes that prohibit minors from entering, and some Internet cafe owners are still dragging minors in and out of the Internet cafes. If you don't refuse at that time and can't control yourself, you will definitely suffer a big loss. Once you are confused by the internet, the consequences are really unimaginable, so minors should never enter commercial Internet cafes.
Through the above survey, I think there are quite a few people who like surfing the Internet. Most minors are addicted to online games and chat rooms. If these middle school students go on like this, it will only be harmful to themselves, not to themselves. Therefore, it is ok for minors to surf the Internet now, but in moderation. Don't indulge in online chatting, look up some useful knowledge on the Internet, and don't do something that is not good for your body and mind. If there is bad information on the internet, you must learn to refuse.
I think the internet is a double-edged sword: healthy surfing the internet is conducive to enhancing communication and exchanges with the outside world and creating a brand-new lifestyle and social interaction; But at the same time, the unhealthy side of the network will also bring serious harm to netizens, especially teenagers.
When surfing the internet, don't read some information that is unfavorable to you. In the chat room, don't tell your net friend your address and telephone number. Otherwise, you will suffer in the end. Enough is enough when surfing the internet.
Intimacy or alienation depends on people's emotional tendency, not on communication tools, but must be achieved through communication tools, so the popularity of the internet is conducive to close interpersonal relationships. First of all, what is the composition of the network? You can answer that it is made up of computers. That's right. But computers are ultimately controlled by people, which means that the ultimate unit of the network is individuals. There are hundreds of millions of netizens in the world today, and there are too many netizens in China to be described as "thousands". Isn't this a huge social circle? In this social circle, people can chat one-on-one, write letters, make public comments and make like-minded friends. If conditions permit, we can meet. What is the essential difference between this and the previous communication? You think you can only chat online, which is obviously a lack of understanding of the network.
The network can let you know many people, and also let many people know you, so your interpersonal circle will naturally become larger, and it will certainly be more convenient to find like-minded friends. If this is not to bring people closer, what is it?
There are also joys and sorrows on the internet, which will not only suppress people's feelings, but also enrich people's feelings, because the network is equivalent to another society. Even if you "dilute" your feelings for the real world, it is only a lost corner. Friends made online are no worse than friends made online.
The internet may really have some influence on language functions, but it is by no means so alarmist as you say. The language of online conversation is basically everyday spoken language, and we never leave the source of our eloquence while typing. What's the big deal if we don't talk?
As you said, the facts are the most convincing. It is a fact that e-mail service as a contact method is the most commonly used and traditional function on the Internet. It can be seen that people have always regarded contact as an important function of the network. As a new contact method in the information age, e-mail has incomparable advantages such as quickness, security and cheapness. The network facilitates the strengthening of the contact between people, which naturally narrows the interpersonal distance.
Of course I know "on the Internet, no one knows you are a dog." But as far as I know, there is no dog who can surf the Internet, so I am not worried about mistaking "human-dog relationship" for "interpersonal relationship". Even if this is true, it is also a question of expanding the scope of communication. What's wrong with it? It is the attraction of the great social circle of the internet that makes people who can't usually get to know each other. Imagine: a student and a shop assistant, if they don't know each other and are far away, it is almost impossible to know each other in the past because their social circle is too far away. But on the internet, direct communication can break the psychological barriers caused by different occupations; As for the geographical gap, it does not exist on the Internet. In this way, they may become good friends. Is there any other way to close the interpersonal distance like this?
There is no distance between heart and heart, especially in the modern network information age, the network can bring people closer to each other's spiritual communication. "
65438+ 10 17, Korea Game Industry Association and Korea Game Industry Development Institute announced the results of "Game Information Education for the Elderly" implemented at the end of last year. Most elderly people have shown remarkable effects in eliminating alienation and preventing aging.
Network is an efficient and convenient platform, where people are free and equal, and their advantages are obvious. People are eager to communicate, and the network fits perfectly with human nature. It is the network that makes communication everywhere.
It is precisely because the Internet breaks the distance between time and space, gives people the choice of communication, and makes up for the lack of communication caused by distance in reality, thus making people more intimate.
The virtuality of network interpersonal communication gives individuals the initiative of self-presentation and self-shaping, but this does not mean that the interpersonal relationship constructed from it is illusory and unreal. The interpersonal relationship in the network is real through social interaction, and interpersonal trust still exists. Therefore, what we care about is not whether to surf the Internet, but how to treat the Internet and how to be a rational netizen.
Network information can be downloaded and stored, which can prolong the time of ideological interaction between educators and educatees and provide "all-weather" ideological guidance and education for teenagers.
Interpersonal indifference is an increasingly serious social disease in modern social life. People are lonely in the reinforced concrete forest, and they urgently need fast, convenient and free communication methods. Network communication expands people's communication space, improves the timeliness, convenience and accuracy of interpersonal communication, is conducive to the establishment and development of good interpersonal relationships, and has a positive impact on the psychological health of student netizens. Under the traditional way of communication, personal communication in real life is often confined to a narrow circle of life. People in the network society can cross Qian Shan, break through the limitation of geographical space, turn the whole earth into a small village, and truly realize "friends all over the world". It can make people stay at home and feel that they are friends for many years in a few seconds. There is no politeness, no temptation, no vigilance, no emotional and moral responsibility. At the same time, due to the anonymity of online interpersonal communication, there is generally no direct face-to-face contact between students, which makes it easier for online interpersonal communication to break through the limitations of traditional interpersonal factors such as age, gender, status, identity, beauty and ugliness, and establish more harmonious, democratic and equal interpersonal relationships.
Computer network not only improves the general social convenience and expands the social circle, but also solves some social problems with special difficulties and obstacles. For example, this year's SARS epidemic in Beijing, primary and secondary school students use the Internet to study, communicate and talk at home. Another example is a patient with severe facial burns, which may make many people unwilling or afraid to approach because of facial deformation; A person with mobility difficulties may be stuck in a corner and unable to let himself enter other people's life circles; Soldiers at border checkpoints may be unable to communicate with the outside world because of inconvenient transportation and duty ... Computer networks provide these special people with a new world of interpersonal communication.
-Multidimensional and global multidimensional are the basic attributes of social relations. When the Internet connects the earth into small villages with its super-regional communication mode, the internet relationship spreads and spreads in unimaginable space, which dwarfs the interpersonal relationship in the real "acquaintance society".
Real equality between individuals; Enhance the subject's moral choice and self-evaluation behavior ability; The individualization and subjectivity of moral individuals are promoted and confirmed, thus expanding, extending and strengthening the moral structure and ethical temperament in human nature and promoting the perfection and development of people.
Wow! I became a net worm as soon as I got online. So according to another debater's logic, eating pork becomes a pig?
Internet garbage exists, but my dear debater, don't you just throw away all the pots, pans, cabinets, tables and chairs when you have some domestic garbage at home?
Look ahead! We focus on development.
You live at the head of the Yangtze River and I live at the end of the Yangtze River. I miss you every day, drink a river, and swim across the Yangtze River if I want to see you. Never mind, we can surf the Internet now!
During the earthquake in Taiwan Province Province, countless netizens donated money and materials through the Internet. Excuse me, does the internet make interpersonal relationships close or distant?
There is a saying in Tang poetry: Although my body doesn't have bright phoenix wings, I can feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn, which is an ancient fantasy, but now we can really "connect everything" by clicking the mouse.
Lu Xun has more than 300 pen names. Is he the most hypocritical person in the world?
With the development of the Internet, the message "I am in my heart" that Miss Xiaolong received will not be engraved on the wings of five bees, but in Yang Guo's mail and Yang Guo's eyes. The bitterness of 16 will turn into clouds.
We don't deny that the relationship between Miss Xiaolong and Yang Guo is estranged because there is no internet, but we can be sure that in the internet age, their relationship will not be recent, but will only be closer.
Do Yang Guo and Little Dragon Girl have Internet? If there is, the little dragon girl must send an affectionate "Yi Meier" in the ancient tomb!
The other party mentioned that being caught in the network led to some regrettable cases, thus denying that people were getting closer. This is obviously one-sided. The network has an abyss, but there are more golden avenues. The other party is determined to jump off the abyss. Who can stop him?
In reality, we can allow telling lies with our real names, so why can't we accept telling the truth with pseudonyms on the Internet?
I am surprised that the other party told us that we must face to face to get close, and there was no face-to-face communication. So does another debater tell us that communication also makes people more alienated?
Today, we don't mean not to have face-to-face communication, but to make it clear that the Internet has not affected people's face-to-face communication. The other party just said that professors at Columbia University are addicted to the Internet, but today many people are addicted to reading. Please tell us that reading and reading also alienate people.
Can you draw an absolute division number between information exchange and emotional exchange? We know that people can communicate their feelings only when they have information to communicate!
Another debater, now my mother and I are separated. Through the internet, we will communicate heart to heart and report to her that we are safe. This is also the way for the Internet to bring my mother and me closer. According to another debater, I have to stay at home all my life to be closer to my mother.
Some people used to worry that the appearance of telephone would alienate people, but has this preference appeared? Excuse me, under such circumstances, how can the network follow the footsteps of the telephone?
The other party said that the telephone is a means of communication between people, so today we say that the Internet is also a means of communication between people. We don't encourage other students to use the internet to make you close to your family, so don't go home.
Closer distance does not mean closer heart. Is it closer to slap the shoulder? From strangers to acquaintances, from indifference to mutual concern, may I ask: is this not closer or farther?
A professor in San Diego, USA, said: People have a communicative mentality. It is whether people want to make friends, not whether people want to make friends online.
Isn't this a huge social circle? In this social circle, people can chat one-on-one, write letters, make public comments and make like-minded friends. If conditions permit, we can meet. What is the essential difference between this and the previous communication? You think you can only chat online, which is obviously a lack of understanding of the network.
Outside the network, there are many things that are derailed; On the internet, there are also many enthusiastic people and honest people. We can't generalize.
Mencius said, "Who is happier when one is with others?" The answer is obviously the latter. There are countless users on the Internet. Isn't that "having fun with people"?
Inside and outside the network are not two parallel worlds. Friends in the network can become friends outside the network, and friends outside the network can also become friends inside the network. Generally speaking, the network is an effective way to expand the scope of interpersonal communication.
From beginning to end, you have tirelessly listed several major crimes of the Internet. But you can't help but know that the number of Internet users all over the world is growing at an exponential rate. People are group animals, why are they so interested in the number one enemy network of interpersonal distance? Is it that human beings suddenly turn to sex, or does the Internet cater to human group desires?
You keep saying that the network is illusory, but the network is realistic from the operator to the memory that stores information, and the network itself is a part of the real society. Both inside and outside the network are not familiar with each other. On the contrary, the inside and outside of the network are closely related, and the hot spots on the network are often hot spots in reality, not to mention all the members on the network live in reality. The network society is only relatively independent, and the online communication circle is only relatively independent. It is not difficult to realize the integration inside and outside the network.
The harm of the Internet to your so-called "real" interpersonal relationship is not as great as you exaggerate. As an important function of the network, e-mail greatly facilitates people's communication. Two people who are far apart can deliver the mail in one second by email. The popularity of the Internet has contributed as much to communication as the popularity of the telephone. Although it is still controversial whether calling or writing letters is better, you can't say that calling alienates people.
Indeed, it is not surprising that some people are not used to interpersonal relationships on the Internet. This is of course because the network technology is still immature, which makes some netizens take the opportunity to do some bad things, but more importantly, the fast and changeable communication mode on the network makes these people unable to adapt. And rapid change is the inevitable product under the condition of market economy. It should be noted that it is the end of the twentieth century, and it is increasingly difficult to adapt to the rapid development of the pastoral lifestyle of picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and leisurely seeing Nanshan. Interpersonal relationship has also been injected with new content in the new era. From the old point of view, I naturally feel uncomfortable.
Even you have to admit that the Internet is a great invention. And it is great, not only because it is a huge database, but also because it is connected with computers and has gained great computing power. More importantly, it has brought us a new way of life, including a new way of interpersonal communication.
At the beginning of the car, some people worried that human beings would become lazy. Facts have proved that this kind of worry is completely unnecessary. Now some people worry that the Internet will alienate people, and this kind of worry will be proved unnecessary in the future. Not only don't worry, but we are glad that the network has brought us new ways of interpersonal communication, thus providing a new opportunity to close the interpersonal distance.
Let me answer each other's questions. The kind of person mentioned by the other party just now is called cyber-worm, but is there more cyber-worm or netizen in society now?
Let me tell my opponent that it's not that more and more people are sick, but that our health requirements are getting higher and higher.
Today, the other debater only talks about emotional communication, not objective facts. Deng Xiaoping has long said, "If we only talk about spirit but not matter, it is simply idealism".
The other debater only talked about closeness and alienation. Don't you realize that from strangeness to familiarity is also a narrowing of distance?
If, according to the defense friend of the other side, people wear false masks to cheat, will there be a debate today?
I found that our current classmates are simply unwise, knowing that computers are getting farther and farther away from each other, and they are still desperately installing computers and surfing the Internet.
If there is no telephone and internet, then we can only be "when there is poverty in the corner of the world, there is only endless acacia"
So, do we know that fish have thorns and don't eat fish?
According to each other's logic, people's thoughts and feelings became closer and closer in the past, but Mr. Lu Xun said, "People at that time were insensitive."
The other debater only said a tiny part of the distance between people, just like now I have a piece of gold in my hand, but the other side says it is not, because it has 1% impurities!
Will the development of the Internet hinder your face-to-face communication?
The other party also saw the problems in the network, so they blamed it on the network itself. You mean: 80% people in the world die in bed, so the bed is the most dangerous thing in the world, right?
The essence of eternal emotion in human nature will never change because of the changes of some carriers and media.
Let's set a standard for judging and judging. What is your standard to measure the alienation of interpersonal relationships on the Internet?
It is for the return of emotion and closer interpersonal relationship that we call for the development of the network. When tall buildings separate people, the network opens a door instead of building a wall between people.
Qianshan is always affectionate, and people can always find the most affectionate one.
My debaters, you have made such a mistake in philosophy: the Internet provides people with choices, not deprives them of them. You can fall in love as normal as you are now, and no one forces you to fall in love through the internet.
Zhu Ling, a girl from Tsinghua University, has a strange disease that can't be cured. She had to turn to the Internet, which saved her life.
Emotional communication must have a material carrier, and the network provides us with such a comprehensive, fast and accurate carrier, so why should the other party argue that it has alienated emotional communication?
Another debater, you really want to do something for your mother, but at this time, you can't face your mother in the debate. If there is no computer network, it is really "the mountain is still old, people are still thin, and tears are still red." I'm afraid you have to ask yourself: what is love and what is helplessness.
Another debater is always saying: the internet has caused alienation between people. So should we say that killing people is not the fault of criminals, but the fault of sharp knives?
Is that interpersonal alienation caused by the development of the internet? I sneezed in the street and had a traffic accident. Can we say that sneezing caused a traffic accident?
Reading can also cause nerds, so will the other debater tell me that reading can also cause interpersonal alienation? Do you blame books or humans themselves?
Other debaters always say that online feelings are nihilistic. So, is the happiness you feel in the email from your parents nothing, or is the love you feel in the email from your girlfriend nothing? If all this is nihilism, let's just find a monastery and become a monk.
We don't deny the existence of cyber crime. Is it because of the internet that crime is caused? Thermos bottles can also be used as a weapon for couples to fight, so is thermos bottles the main reason for marital discord?
There are no perfect things in the world, and there are no stormy waves, so there are so many beautiful mountains and rivers.
Then I would like to ask another debater, did we invent the Internet to benefit mankind or to help mankind commit crimes?
Indulging in anything can make people crazy. Isn't falling in love suicide?
Excuse me, is that a network failure? This is a human mistake! Please don't blame all human beings on the internet. If that croissant was caused by the internet, which website caused AIDS?
For the long history of mankind, the Internet is just a newborn. How can people draw arbitrary conclusions? If a baby can be judged at birth, why didn't Hitler be strangled in the cradle by Jews?
Interpersonal communication in traditional society is generally established due to the relationship between blood, geography and industry, which is limited by time and space and narrow. Network technology provides more convenient and extensive social communication opportunities for social members through all-round and multi-level information transmission. On the Internet, from dignitaries to ordinary people, for anyone, as long as you want, you only need a computer, a modulator and a direct dial phone, and you can get involved at any time. Even if you don't leave home, you can easily communicate and cooperate with different people in different parts of the world. Because the Internet only exists as a spontaneous information network, it has no owner and does not belong to anyone, any institution or even any country. This determines that people can communicate and communicate independently on the Internet, and every member of the network can participate in the production and dissemination of information to the maximum extent. So as to maximize the equality of interpersonal communication. This provides a foundation for establishing a more harmonious, democratic and equal interpersonal relationship between people. At the same time, because interpersonal communication under the network condition can go beyond the limitation of physical space, interpersonal communication is no longer limited by space and time, and network communication expands people's communication space and improves the timeliness and convenience of interpersonal communication. There is no doubt that the open interpersonal communication and interpersonal relationship under the network conditions have expanded the circle of interpersonal communication, which not only revolutionized the scope of people's communication, but also extended and developed people's sociality as never before and innovated interpersonal relationships. Therefore, compared with the traditional interpersonal relationship, the interpersonal relationship under the network condition is more rapid, convenient, open, free, equal and extensive.
Today, the information content of a copy of The New York Times is equivalent to that of a European in17th century.
With the development of society and the great changes of the times, the network is no longer strange and has entered the family one after another.
China and the whole world, it spreads all kinds of information, making it very convenient for people to know what they want to know.
During the SARS period, the government education department conducted online teaching and answering questions for primary and secondary school students. ...
It's good for our study, and we can communicate with excellent teachers and chat by voice.
The way of communicating with the teacher not only improves my interest in learning, but also makes me embarrassed to mention anything to the teacher.
Students who ask questions also have a good channel, so their academic performance will be greatly improved. If there is no network,
These are pure fables.
The Internet is like the sea of Wang Yang, full of wonders, good and bad.
On the other hand, that is what everyone usually says: everything has advantages and disadvantages, and the two are closely linked and inseparable.
Yes The network seems to be a field, boundless and borderless. The Internet seems to be another bottomless black hole.
There are many, many people under the black hole who are addicted to it, rely on it and regard it as some uncontrollable and overwhelmed life.
Students, who are completely immersed in it, live a virtual life day after day. For contemporary middle school students, there are the most
What attracts people is online chatting and online games. In order to chat, tens of thousands of people sit in front of computers.
Looking at the screen, chatting with strangers is so exciting. Of course! As the saying goes,
Once born, twice familiar ~ talking a few times is like kissing someone! However, now there is OICQ, which is
It has greatly increased the space for us middle school students to make friends, from all districts and counties to China and even the whole world. for us
For me, it is really a good thing! I talked to some middle school students, two of a kind, and only said three or four sentences.
Who knows there are five or six passages, lyre, unintentional play, eight-part essay, and biography of Mei Er. There is no way to dismantle the nine-ring chain, and it is a pavilion.
I am eager to wear, I think and complain in every way, and I have no choice but to complain about the internet. A thousand words, mixed feelings, nine lives.
The cat is in the forum, with witty remarks in all directions, seven long and eight short, and the six gods have heard your sweet words all over the world.
Accompanied by the heart, Sansheng is fortunate to have a network connection, and the binary code leads the red line. I can't wait to see you when I log off. Handsome online search
Flowers, but "dinosaurs" shuttle like sand! There are now some middle school "hobbies", about online dating.
Physically, like charges repel each other, but like charges attract each other! This is the law of nature, yes
Irrevocable. More than 80% parents are unwilling to support their children to chat online. The reason seems to be
Quite simply, I am afraid that my child will be cheated. To tell the truth, there are online scammers, but they are not what people say.
How much! But who knows, the person you are dating online may be an old lady who is nearly six months old or seven years old.
What about the ten-year-old grandmother? ! The most terrible thing is that people of the same sex with you proudly pretend to be girls.
And make a pleasant appearance and whisper to you! Speaking of which, I didn't know I had goose bumps all over.
The sudden rise is really creepy! Think about it, how boring, disgusting and terrible it is.
Love! I really don't know, what a shock! Parents agree that surfing the Internet will affect students' study and distract their attention.
Energy, learning endless decline, but also afraid of their children online affinity, mired in the mire, into the whirlpool of feelings, and
In addition, I am worried that some bad websites will attack my children and damage their tender hearts. of course
! Unless you study online, only in this way can you rest assured. Their parents' fears and anxieties made them make up their minds.
Heart, let children be isolated from the internet, but do you know? There are Internet cafes in the society! Although internet cafes have been rectified
London has risen again, and we primary and secondary school students are not allowed to enter, but there are still some black internet cafes, and some are positive.
The boss who often runs Internet cafes still boldly "recruits" middle school students in order to make a profit. Anyway, it's up to us.
Students' consciousness, other methods seem to be useless. After chatting, online games make students more excited! Wu He
What a pleasure it is for netizens from all over the world to play games together! What attracts students in the game is that pair.
Exquisite pictures, lifelike characters, various occupations in the game, and wonderful battle mirrors in battle.
Boss, needless to say, it's so attractive. Some students go to Internet cafes to play online games every day, which is never enough.
When you spend money to play, you will try to get money to meet your own needs, which is likely to lead to juvenile delinquency.
It happened and affected the social order. This is the bad consequence of the game. But speaking, online games are online at the same time.
The number of people in China is as high as several million, which is incredible. There are really many people. Middle school students who are fascinated now, if they
If you don't go for a day, you will feel like something is missing, thinking that you still can't do it. After some ideological struggle.
Run out of the house at night and go straight to the Internet cafe. After a night, I feel refreshed and whiter.
Much cheaper. How can the Internet attract middle school students so much? Parents are also very strange, but you don't take precautions.
Give it a try! Maybe, maybe, maybe you will be addicted to it all day like your child ~ as for myself,
There is also consciousness, which can control and grasp yourself. I hope those who are still addicted to wandering in the virtual world all day
Middle school students can wake up early.
Having said that, the advantages and disadvantages of the Internet for middle school students are that they can learn more.
Tao, enrich yourself, enrich yourself. The disadvantage is that some middle school students are addicted to it. Of course, this is
The advantages still far outweigh the disadvantages. In the future, if we middle school students want to make good use of the Internet, we should know how to face it.
Is the most important thing.