Whether college students should fall in love and the impact of college students falling in love have become one of the hot topics discussed in society in recent years.

Things often have two sides, and sometimes we only see one side, even to the extreme. I think there are pros and cons to being in a relationship while in college.

College life is a beautiful period of life worth remembering. College students are basically young people between the ages of 17 and 25. They have all gone through the "purgatory" of high school. Many college students will be relieved to have just entered the wonderful university hall. They will make changes in their college life, and of course, this includes falling in love. In fact, it is not useless for college students to fall in love. First of all, I think falling in love among college students can increase a person's sense of responsibility. The right kind of love can make a person grow from immature to mature, thus enhancing his sense of responsibility to society. Since you love someone, you have to pay for the other person, be responsible for the other person, and make the other person happy. As long as the other person is happy, you will be happy. Maybe you have the habit of being lazy, and he or she doesn't like it, then you might change for the other person; maybe you have the habit of being lazy, and the other person doesn't like it, then you might change for the other person. .

Secondly, falling in love can make a person more ideal and ambitious. Ideals give love a profound social connotation and are the inner basis of love. Love is the blending of two people's emotions, the unity of loving each other and loving oneself. One party's expectations for character will affect the other party's expectations for character; one party's expectations for behavior The recognition of one party will affect the behavioral standards of the other party; the words of one party will affect the expression of the other party's voice. This mutual reflection of personality and mutual recognition of aspirations and interests form the common ideals of life for both parties, which invigorates the spirits of men and women in love, encourages each other, stimulates people's wisdom, and sublimates people's character.

As a form of interpersonal communication, love is bound to be bound by morality. A correct view of love can make college students respect the equality of personality more. To love the other person, you need to give the other person freedom and happiness, and respect the other person. Whether the other person accepts your love, rejects your love, or gives you love is the other person's freedom. In fact, there are many touching love stories on university campuses. According to the newspaper, a man and woman in a certain university were in love. The man unfortunately suffered from leukemia, but the girl did not walk away after knowing about it. She cared about and cared for her boyfriend even more, and ignored the public opinion and walked alone on the street. Begging money from passers-by to treat her boyfriend. It can be said that their love is positive, beautiful and touching.

Is it beneficial for college students to fall in love? Not really. College students are in the transition period from adolescence to adulthood. Their minds and bodies are not completely mature, and they are prone to impulse. Some students cannot accurately distinguish between friendship and love when interacting with the opposite sex, which can easily cause misunderstandings and cause trouble to both parties. Although college life is wonderful and we can relax appropriately, we should still focus on learning. You can't do two things at once. Since you are in love, it is very likely to affect your study. Some students mistakenly put love at the highest level in life, pursue love supremacy, and indulge in emotional entanglement, which affects their studies and thus their own future. A female student from a certain University A jumped into a lake and committed suicide because of emotional problems. This is a tragedy, which shows that the psychological quality of contemporary college students is still not high. There are also some college students who think that falling in love is a fashion. They think that if they don’t fall in love in college, they will not be able to keep up with the times. The result is that they will chase and fall in love randomly regardless of whether they like it or not, whether they have a harmonious personality or not. They "don't care about eternity, only care about what they once had." They treat love as a child's play, which will hurt each other and themselves.

College students basically do not have the ability and channels to make money on their own, and they basically spend their parents’ money. During a relationship, it is inevitable that expenses will increase. Every Sunday, there will be a lot of "even numbers" on the university campus. They go to high-end restaurants and buy expensive things.

They don’t know that they are squeezing their parents’ blood and sweat! Some college students actually use money as a criterion when choosing a lover. Real love is not based on money.

We cannot blindly agree with college students falling in love, nor can we arbitrarily oppose it. We must look at it with a correct attitude. To establish a correct view of love, college students must recognize both the positive impact of love and the negative impact of love.

For college students, if they meet love in college, they should take care of it with all their heart, cherish it doubly, have a correct view of love, and handle all kinds of relationships in love well, so that they can have a happy life. Along with a bright future, there is also a pure, beautiful and sweet love.