First of all, young people should be tolerant of others, especially their elders. You should have discovered from an early age that many people who came from that era had some uncomfortable places in one way or another. But their generation has suffered, and it can be said that they are afraid of suffering.

When I was a child, especially in adolescence, I also sincerely hated many elders around me, even some relatives at home. I think they are too young citizens and like to take advantage too much, which is disgusting. However, parents, especially mothers, always let strangers who are not even familiar with us take advantage of our family like silly big sisters. I didn't understand my mother at first, but I admired her later. Because my mother said that she learned the truth of being a man from my grandmother. During the three-year natural disaster, a neighbor stole my grandmother's rice, and my grandmother found out. My grandmother pretended that nothing had happened. On an unrelated private occasion, she was easy-going and seemingly inadvertently invited the woman who stole her rice to my grandmother's house to get it. The woman who stole my grandmother's rice suddenly blushed. She was very grateful to my grandmother, because if the theft was reported, her life would be ruined. No one will steal from others unless there is no rice in the pot. Since then, she and my grandmother have become very good friends. When my grandmother died, she came to attend the memorial service and cried worse than our family. .

Later, when I grew up, many people around me laughed at me for being stupid: why do people say that you can lend such a good thing to others, and you don't have to pay for it if it is damaged or lost? Why do you always pay for dinner together, and others are always timid, and you can't take out a wallet 1 minute? Are you an idiot? I always smile at this time.

The older generation may not have a higher education level or diploma than the current generation, but they have a lot to learn and wisdom to be human, which are part of China's precious traditional culture. And these precious things began to disappear gradually among the younger generation. People nowadays are too self-centered, don't understand the difficulties of others, and don't know that loss is a blessing.

Judging from your description, your girlfriend's parents are typical ordinary citizens, so you don't have to bother yourself. I believe you are smart enough to solve the so-called 700,000 yuan game you think they set for you. For example, I immediately answered them: thank you for your kindness. I naturally have the responsibility to bear the loan for the house my parents bought for me. Please rest assured your uncle and aunt.