The reason why your relative has this phenomenon may be caused by the following factors: 1. Only child; most of the only children nowadays are the little emperors of the family, so your relative If you are a young person, it is probably caused by being an only child. Only children are often doted on by their parents and tend to develop a self-centered character. Such people are often self-righteous and do not know that they should listen to the opinions of others, let alone the principle that when three people walk together, there must be one teacher. 2. If your relative is an older person, he is likely to be a highly skilled person in a certain field, or a scholar studying a certain field. This kind of person requires meticulousness in work and knowledge, so he is rigid, accepts death, and likes to stick to his own point of view. Because he is superior, he will think that others are wrong and only he is right. At the same time, this Even if such people find that they are wrong, they rarely admit their mistakes. The problem with this kind of people is that they are self-righteous, self-centered, and never put themselves in perspective. He only has the word "I" in his heart. When getting along with such a person, if he is a person who can be avoided, then you should stay away from him as much as possible. If he is a person who cannot be avoided, then you should be particularly tolerant and generous. , don't care about his hasty language. As for how to help him, the best way is to guide him to study more and read more books. With a wider range of knowledge, he will understand the principles of life. For example: you can place a lot of books in your home, all kinds of books, to make him feel that there is a world outside the world and there are people outside the world. Of course, if you don't like reading, this method won't work, because if he really asks you relevant questions and you can't answer them, it will be in vain. Don't directly enumerate his shortcomings, otherwise not only will it not be helpful, but it will also be counterproductive. After arousing his disgust towards you, he will no longer be able to listen to anything you say. If possible, you should appear to be knowledgeable in front of him (be careful not to show off deliberately) to make him admire you. At that time, he will listen to whatever you say. Finally, I would like to advise you: If you don't have diamonds, don't take up the porcelain job. It is difficult to help such people. As the saying goes, a person's character is easy to change, but his nature is hard to change. If you want to change a person's character, you can only rely on his own awakening. It is very likely that other people's help will go unpaid for their good intentions. Therefore, if you don't need to help people, try your best not to take action.