First, if the dating software you are talking about is a famous "dating artifact", then it may be as she said, fearing that acquaintances will see it, it will be difficult to be a man in the future;
Second, if it's just a general WeChat or something, it may not look good (at least she's not very confident about her appearance).
If you are serious about having a girlfriend, you can take your time.
If your purpose is just to make a suggestion like pao, then make it clear.
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