Ze Ze's mother: Stealing is undoubtedly touching the bottom line, and decisiveness is intolerable. Once found, it is necessary to seriously investigate and deal with it once. Even if there is only one tiny thing, it is wrong for children to remember it. The worst time, I slapped him directly and my face was swollen.
Mother Orange: When children are found stealing snacks or toys, they will immediately put them back in their original places without loudly reprimanding them. I'm always worried about hearing gossip after being known and causing a bad impression on myself and my children. It is more appropriate to educate children from the perspective of face or privately.
In fact, parents' attitudes are nothing more than two, or they can directly beat up and let their children realize that stealing is quite high; Either suppress anger, save face for children and yourself, and understand later. However, these two methods can't actually deal with the small problem of children stealing.
Remember: children of different ages have different concepts about stealing. Therefore, even if children are found stealing, don't just label them, let alone scold them. The key now is to correctly guide children to express the reasons for stealing, so as to solve the difficulties.
If the child can be directly labeled as a "thief", how sad his psychological state should be. Parents beat their children regardless of why, which may even damage parent-child communication. Moreover, can parents clearly bear the harm of the label effect? One day, what should parents do if the child really becomes the kind of person under logo?
Therefore, we must be cautious in solving children's stealing behavior. Carelessness will push the child into the abyss. Don't forget, when educating children at any time, please stay on the rational line and don't be carried away by anger. Please understand the child carefully and patiently: Why do you "steal" things? After listening to the children's answers, the effect of purposeful education is more prominent.
The child replied: I like it very much. If children show that they like this kind of thing too much, they will form a stealing mentality. Parents don't have to be angry or scold, tell their children that what they like must be obtained through appropriate channels. If you really like it, tell your parents carefully and ask adults to help pay for it.
The child's answer 2: XX in the cartoon was taken away in this way, indicating that the child is influenced by film and television dramas, and there is no distinction between good and bad. If the child is really wrong, it is that he imitates the physical and psychological aspects too strongly. Parents should feel lucky, at least that their children have strong learning ability in the course. At this time, we should seize the opportunity to convey the concept of right and wrong to the child and let him know the true distinction between nobility and inferiority.
Child answer 3: The same is true of XX children, and the children around them also have the habit of stealing things, which not only shows that children are following the trend, but also shows that they are careless in making friends. Especially from kindergarten to basic education, children will inevitably have the idea of "blindly comparing" in social life. They don't know right from wrong. But feel what others have done and learn from them. Parents should teach their children the rules of making friends in the daily teaching process. It is not difficult to see that although the child's stealing behavior is wrong, everything is excusable.
In the face of children stealing from the supermarket, smart parents should learn to teach their children 1 not to label them. No matter what their children do, don't label them casually, especially the words "thief". Remember, children have self-esteem, and saying so often will do some harm to their body and mind.
2. To understand the behavior of "stealing", you must teach your child the right to use basic items, and let him know that things that don't belong to him don't want to be taken away without the permission of others. Only by clearly recognizing the behavior of "stealing" can children know what is wrong and gradually correct it. Even if this person is unconscious, parents need a peaceful education, which will aggravate the child's first impression.
3. Leading children to admit their mistakes Although the behavior of taking children to the police station to "surrender" is somewhat exaggerated, what is hidden behind it is the good intentions of parents. Even if the population is false, it is the responsibility of parents to bring their children to admit their mistakes. As a child's parents and teachers, we must teach him to take responsibility for mistakes and actively correct them. Parents' attitudes and good experiences and practices are mostly the best examples for children, illuminating his way forward.
Before summing up the mistakes, parents' scolding really doesn't help. It is not so much the persistence of various punishments as the correct guidance of children to set sail again. Guide the child's previous mistakes and educate him to gradually correct them. During this period, parents should carefully and kindly give their children room to grow up.