A life span lasts only a hundred years, but there are thousands of people we pass by. At every stage, there are a few friends we can get along with, but as jobs change and the living distance increases, Gradually, you will find that you have less contact with some friends and have distant relationships. This is very sad and regretful, but it is also normal.

1. Most of the people who accompany you throughout your life are your family. Everyone has their own life, and there are not many friends who can always accompany them throughout their lives, except for family members who get along day and night. You have a life, and he also has a life. If you are busy with life and work, you may become estranged from each other. It is an objective law to separate and reunite, so don't be particularly entangled.

2. Come and go often, forever. If you find that a friend is gradually moving away from your life, please see how long it has been since you have contacted him or sat together. When we complain about each other even a little bit, we may be doing the same bad thing. To maintain friendship, it requires the joint efforts of both parties. Make phone calls when there is nothing to do, and often visit each other when you have time. As long as you keep in touch and see each other, you will not be too alienated.

3. Time will filter out many people. The relationship between friends is not static, and neither is everyone. With different experiences in work and life, the ways of doing things between the two parties may move in different directions, and the styles of dealing with people may also be constantly adjusted. There may be gaps in the ability fields of both parties. You may gradually find that the other party has long been He was not that young man, so he may have gradually drifted away.

If a friend is estranged, calmly analyze it. It’s because you are too busy at work and don’t have time to get together. Then make an appointment as soon as possible! It's because of some careless mistake of yours, so take the initiative to contact and communicate! It's because your dealing styles have gone divergent, so let it go slowly and become ordinary friends. It's not a bad idea to keep in touch occasionally.