Before and after children enter middle school, they should continue to carry out social communication education. You can tell children some vivid stories about celebrities making friends in ancient and modern times, not only telling the truth that making good friends is good, but also telling examples of making bad friends and losing money. You should consciously instill in your children that making friends should be selective and prudent, enhance their moral concepts, help them improve their ability to distinguish right from wrong, build a line of defense in their hearts, and reduce the blindness of making friends. At the same time, parents should also take the initiative to help their children find good friends, such as good children among neighbors, relatives and friends, and good classmates among classmates, so as to encourage children to associate with them more and make them have friendship. 2. Education should pay attention to ways and means.

When it is found that children have made bad friends, parents should first calm down and then spend the necessary time and energy to understand the situation in detail. You can ask children or their partners for information, or you can go to school and ask teachers for information. But this kind of understanding must be carefully considered in advance, and we should be fully prepared for how to ask and the difficulties we may encounter. At the same time, you should choose the right occasion and pay attention to your child's emotional acceptance. Don't get angry, beat and scold at this time, and don't keep the children at home. Doing so will be counterproductive, resulting in the fundamental opposition of children's emotions, shifting their psychological "sense of belonging" and narrowing the distance with bad friends. Therefore, only patient persuasion and active guidance can continue to give children care, warmth and certain trust, and prevent them from looking for the comfort of "intimate friends" outside. After the child's mood is stable and normal, it is necessary to explain the truth to the child with specific facts, let the child understand where the interests lie, and urge the child to cut off the communication with bad friends, at least to be vigilant in the communication. Give affirmation and encouragement when children have a desire to change and rarely act. If a child joins a rogue criminal gang, he should not hesitate to get in touch with the school or even the public security department and try to cooperate with education to save him. At the same time, parents should be given the love they deserve.

Get in touch with the school in time and cooperate in running schools.

The main living environment of junior high school students is family and school. The objects they associate with are basically in the circles of these two environments. When children have some problems, parents should contact the school in time. This has two advantages: first, many students' activities are in the teacher's field of vision, and the teacher may grasp the situation or provide some background and related information. On the contrary, schools are specialized educational institutions and teachers are specialized educators. They master the laws of education and have certain educational methods. Parents can ask the teacher for advice. Generally speaking, teachers are enthusiastic and responsible for education, and will certainly cooperate with parents to educate their children.