Marriage is a major event in life, representing a kind of responsibility and commitment. However, some people may feel depressed after marriage and even yearn for a single life. In this case, consider the following suggestions:

Explore the reasons. It's important to understand why you yearn for single life. It may be because there are problems in married life, or the expectations of married life are inconsistent with reality, etc. Only by finding the root cause can effective measures be taken to solve the problem.

Communicate. If there are problems in married life, they can be solved through communication. Communicate openly with your spouse, share your feelings and thoughts, and find solutions to problems.

Ask for help. If you can't solve the problem, you can seek professional help. Marriage counselors can help couples solve problems in their marriage and alleviate conflicts.

Find your own balance. Even in married life, you should maintain your independence and find your own balance. You can participate in some activities that you like and maintain your personal interests and hobbies, which can make you feel happier and reduce depression.

Re-examining marriage. If you can't solve the problem anyway, consider revisiting your marriage. If your marriage has lost its happiness beyond repair, consider finding other solutions.

In short, yearning for a single life is a normal emotion, but it does not mean that married life cannot make people happy. Finding your own happiness can be achieved through communication, seeking help, finding self-balance and re-examining marriage. The most important thing is to respect your own feelings and needs, as well as those of your spouse, and create a happy married life together.