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Not everyone deserves help.
Telling a short career story is a friend's personal experience. He doesn't deal with his immediate boss, so it's easy to understand. He has rich experience. His former boss was promoted to deputy general manager. He thought he had a chance of promotion, so he parachuted into this director. He is very kind to a subordinate, especially trusts him, and is willing to tell him the truth. The business thing is to hold his hand and teach him sincerely without reservation. Subordinate also seems to be very close to him, very dead set. But what he said and complained about, the subordinate turned and told the director. The subordinate was hypocritical and pretentious, and finally succeeded in replacing him as the department manager. Even the former boss and the current deputy general manager can't help him. Friends lament that people are not suitable, and I think this is the normal state of the workplace. When the Woods grow up, there are all kinds of birds. His previous career was so smooth that he met all the good birds. What I know is that the workplace is by no means a place to talk and make friends, but a place to exchange interests. This is an arena of zero-sum games, and it will be a great success. Your kindness to others is your cruelty to yourself.

A story in Aesop's fable "The Farmer and the Snake" was learned in primary school, remember? In a cold winter, the farmer who came home from the market found a frozen snake on the roadside. He felt sorry for the snake and put it in his arms. When the heat of his body warmed the snake, the snake woke up quickly, revealing its cruel nature and biting the farmer, causing fatal harm to him. Before he died, the farmer said, "I pity a bad man!" " You deserve this retribution! "You see, I tried to do a good deed to help a snake, but the result was caught by it.

Similarly, there is the story of Mr. Dong Guo and the wolf: the wolf was killed by hunters, and Mr. Dong Guo pitied the wolf and put it in his pocket. After deceiving the hunter, the wolf wanted to eat Mr. Dong Guo, and an old farmer happened to come. The old farmer put the wolf back in his pocket and killed it. Finally, the old farmer said, "It's silly of you to be so kind to wolves. You should remember this lesson. " This story illustrates a truth: not all people deserve your help, and helping others depends on others. Only help those who should be helped, and don't pity the wolf-like villain.

Let's start with the Jiangge murder case that happened on 20 16. Although five years have passed, I still remember it vividly. The reason is that Jiangge was taken in by Liu, who shouldn't have been taken in. When the murderer came to trouble Liu, Jiangge stepped forward and went out to stop him (fool, what's it to you? You and Liu don't have a lifelong friendship! Besides, who is Liu and why doesn't he have any points in his heart? ), Liu Jin was ruthlessly shut out of the house and died with more than a dozen knives. Jiangge died for Liu, but Liu turned around. Sighing Jiangge, helping people who shouldn't help, not only lost their lives, but also made their families restless. Pay attention to everyone-this is very important, form your own value judgment of others, and make clear who you can be close to. Who must I stay away from? Protect your privacy, and don't disclose family members, home addresses, identity information, behavior habits and other information. And beware of other people's pranks. Be especially wary of people who borrow money from you. Some people are not worth lending them.

When I was a child, victims occasionally came to the house to make excuses to eat. Parents treat them differently: for the sick and disabled, have a good meal; Parents never give alms to beggars in their prime. My father told me-

Helping a person who can support himself will only make him weaker and weaker.