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Female primary school teachers are popular for blind dates. Is it easy to choose a mate?

Nowadays, women have an absolute advantage among primary school teachers. As a generation of middle school teachers and students age and retire, primary school campuses have almost become a "daughter country". Take my village-level primary school as an example. There are six classes in the school, about 60 students, but 10 teachers. Except for me, all of them are "women's soldiers".

Most of these teachers are oriented normal school students assigned in recent years. They are around 20 years old, and several of them do not have boyfriends yet. As the saying goes, flowers bloom inside the walls and fragrance outside the walls. Although there are few men in the teacher team, these girls do not lack suitors in the towns. No, some young men from the township police stations, town governments, and town middle schools follow the leaders to the countryside for guidance. Job opportunities, some come under the guise of exchanges between schools, and some come in the name of police-civilian democracy building, and they come to schools looking for opportunities.

However, the good times did not last long. After more than a month, the noisy campus became deserted, the guidance staff no longer came, the school exchanges were less, and the police and civilian leaders also changed. Having become veteran policemen in their fifties, it seems that these young men have failed. This situation actually happens almost every year. Today's girls still have relatively high standards. Township civil servants, township middle school teachers, doctors, and police officers are no longer the first choice for girls.

Female teachers are the favorites of many boys. They are patient and caring, and they have more holidays, making it easier to educate children. So are these female teachers easy to get married? In fact, that's not the case. There are many female teachers who are not married when they are 24 or 5 years old, and it is not uncommon for those who are still single when they are 27 or 8 years old. Why did the "sought-after" female teacher become a "leftover girl"? There are several main reasons:

First: Nowadays, girls’ concepts have changed, and it is more common to think of playing for a few more years while they are young

If girls haven’t done so by the time they reach their twenties, Boyfriends and parents may be anxious, but as the saying goes, "The emperor is not in a hurry, eunuchs are in a hurry", but these girls are not in a hurry. I sometimes ask girls at school why they don't hurry up and find a person they like? Most of their answers are that they haven’t played enough yet and will wait for a few more years.

In the eyes of girls, getting married means responsibilities and constraints. At that time, there will be many worries and fetters, and they will no longer be as free and unrestrained as when they were single, so they think they can have more fun while they are young. In two years, there is no rush to start a family.

Girls today are also very advanced in their consumption concepts. They chase stars, travel, and buy all kinds of things on weekends. They post delicious food in their circle of friends. They all have their own world and their own I have a lot of fun playing my hobby, why would I think about getting married early?

Second: The social circle that rural teachers have contact with is relatively small, and it is not easy to find a suitable partner.

These girls who are oriented to normal schools are assigned to rural schools as soon as they graduate. The school is located in a remote area and they can only live and eat at the school. Those who are close to home may be able to go home on weekends, while those who are far away from home may rarely go home twice a semester. In rural areas, apart from children, there are also elderly people. There are very few young people at home. Where can you find a suitable partner? The small social circle has also delayed the youth of many female teachers.

In recent years, the labor union in our county has organized some relatively large-scale blind dates every year for young men and women of appropriate age who are civil servants from enterprises, institutions, and government agencies in the district to participate. A female teacher from our school passed Find your other half on this platform. It's just that the probability of success for such a blind date doesn't seem to be very high.

Third: The salary of the teaching profession has improved in recent years, and the vision of female teachers has also increased, which to a certain extent has resulted in the failure of high-level jobs and low-level jobs.

In the past, the targets of rural female teachers were usually township civil servants, policemen at township police stations, doctors at township health centers, middle school teachers, etc. The occupation and economic income in the south were slightly higher than those of the women. This is This combination is also relatively stable. But now that teachers' financial income has improved to a certain extent, female teachers' vision has naturally improved. If they are not good enough, they will not be low, so some female teachers have been delayed.

Besides, today’s female teachers no longer try the little girls who only studied in the normal school for three years in the past. Some of them are admitted after graduating from university. Even the directed normal school students have a five-year college degree. As your income increases, you gain more knowledge, and your standards for choosing a mate will naturally increase.