First of all, you should learn to judge the authenticity of boys’ words. A scumbag always talks nonsense to girls and makes all kinds of promises to each other. He must be a standard scumbag. Scumbags often have an obvious characteristic, that is, they are particularly good at saying sweet words and can make girls very happy. Girls often like boys to say nice things. Scumbags take advantage of this, but they can never do it.
Secondly, you should explore more privacy of boys. A scumbag is a typical person who "eats from the bowl and looks into the pot." A scumbag will never show his cell phone to a girl, because there will be information on his cell phone about him chatting with other girls. Only after he established a relationship with that girl would he kick his current girlfriend away.
Finally, you should learn to identify the tricks that make jerks tick. Scumbag men know that most girls like romance and surprises, so scumbag men especially know the tricks to create romance and surprises. They have actually used these tricks on many girls. If you meet a boy who knows his tricks very well, you must not be fooled by his appearance. You should get to know him deeply before you can judge whether he is a scumbag.
What is a good man like? A scumbag is more like a good man than a good man.
Whatever you like is what the scumbag will evolve into.
In reality, beautiful girls are more attractive and are often more likely to meet high-ranking scumbags.
But this does not mean that ordinary girls are safe, because many scumbags are not picky eaters.
Their own conditions may not be very good, but they have some advantages and specialties in certain aspects.
It will cost a lot to attract high-quality beauties, and the probability of losing money is very high.
So, except for a small group of people who like challenges, other scumbags with average conditions will choose to lower their requirements and increase availability.
This kind of person is not necessarily tall, rich, or handsome. He is very down-to-earth, which makes it easy for you to relax your vigilance, but he is more ruthless than anyone else.
This is also what many girls say. For the sake of safety, they found an ugly guy with no money, but he turned out to be a scumbag too.
To judge solely by whether you are "tall, rich and handsome" can only reduce the probability, but it is also inaccurate.
If you want to judge a scumbag relatively accurately, you must use the method I mentioned before.
Use interests to judge and human nature to analyze.
Go and see what value you can bring to the other party and how much restraint you can impose on the other party.
If the gap is too large, there must be something wrong.
If you only provide physiological value and reproductive value, then don’t blame others for using you as a humanoid cannon and fertility machine.
Of course, this method can only increase the probability as much as possible, but it cannot be absolute.
If you are still worried, I will teach you a one-size-fits-all approach.
I will tell you which kind of man has the lowest probability of being a scumbag.
· His family is well-off but not very wealthy. He needs to continue to work hard on his own. (Have ambitions and goals)
· Parents work in government, schools, hospitals, state-owned enterprises and other units with obvious social binding effects. (I have been taught to be "face-conscious" since I was a child)
· My family education is strict and positive. (With adequate education, it is not easy to go out of line)
· I have an average appearance and figure, and I have basically never been actively pursued by the opposite sex. (Face less temptation from the outside world)
· My job is not in a place where women gather, and science and engineering majors are preferred. (Same as above)
· Straight men with little or no love experience are not good at interacting with the opposite sex. (The success rate of active flirting is low)
·Having certain expectations or fantasies about love means having a certain degree of love brain. (Less interest analysis, high purity of love)
· Have a certain mental mysophobia, and severe fear of AIDS (this is very important, excluding prostitution)
If the above conditions can be met, then He's basically no longer a scumbag.
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