A clever woman gives a man space, and friends are also an indispensable part of his life. She loves you, and there is no conflict with her and her friends. Just as you like shopping with your girlfriend, men should also have room to get along with their friends. This is a space for smart women to give men.

Smart women give men space 1 "space" for men to be alone.

In fact, love has a burn-out period. Whether two people are in love or married, they should give each other a "space". If two people fall in love again, if they stick too tightly, they will lose their freshness and love for each other.

Women should know how to give men some private space, and don't pester men every day. Do you think sticking together all day will warm up feelings? Wrong, in fact, sometimes sticking too close often backfires. A woman with a real high emotional intelligence knows how to leave some private space for herself and her partner. After all, there is a distance to produce beauty.

Give men "space" to get along with their friends.

Each of us is an independent individual. Neither lover nor husband and wife can completely possess him. He has his own life circle. He had his own friends before you. You can't deprive him of all his freedom just because you appear.

In fact, if you are smart enough, you will understand that friends are also an indispensable part of his life. She loves you, and she likes to get along with friends, which is not in conflict. Just as you like shopping with your girlfriends, men should also have room to get along with their friends. A woman with high emotional intelligence will never deprive a man of this right.

Give men "space" to get along with their parents.

Parents are the people who brought us into this world, and their upbringing can never be forgotten, especially for you and men. If you really love this man, then you also want his parents to be happy, and you will be happy to see him filial to his parents and get along well with them.

You have to understand that only when the family is harmonious can your feelings be blessed by your family. Never complain when a man is with his parents, which will only destroy the feelings between you step by step. A woman with real high emotional intelligence will be filial to her parents with men and know how to give men space to get along with their parents.

Give men money "space"

If you are always a woman who controls money tightly, then men are more complaining and jealous of you, and love for you may be a kind of timid love. This is far from the love you want.

Women with high emotional intelligence want to have good feelings with men, so give men enough space in money. Leave room for everything, and men will love you more. You know, there is no shortage of useful money for a person hanging around outside. You should know how to support and trust him.

Give men "space" for dignity.

As a woman, you must not be too strong. No man likes a woman who is too strong. In front of him, you can't be too overbearing. Relaxation is the best. Outside, you should be gentle. You must protect a man's face and don't embarrass him.

A woman with high emotional intelligence knows how to be strong when she should be strong, and puts down her pride when she should give a man dignity. Such a woman can really get a man's love.

In this era, whether facing work or lover, we should pay attention to one way. Only by being kind to one person and one thing can we have a happy ending.

Smart women give men space and give each other freedom.

1, make him feel a sense of crisis.

With a man, don't take the initiative, he will get bored after a long time. If you don't give up, don't give up He will never have a sense of crisis. There is a saying: those who can't get it are always in turmoil, and those who are optimistic are fearless. If you care too much about him, he won't care too much about you. Let him have a sense of crisis of losing you, and let him feel the right feeling. When he feels this way, he will spoil you and put your position first.

2. Don't lose yourself.

A relationship is like a swamp. Stay out of it and you'll be safe. Once you step in, you will get deeper and deeper. Many women easily lose themselves in love. They only think about their man every day, and the whole world revolves around him instead of doing their own thing. At this time, men will be more and more cold to you because you have lost your charm.

3. Give men the right amount of free space, and don't bind each other tightly.

Men don't need too much personal space. Smart women don't talk back and crush men to death. A man is like a spring, you can only press and pull it gently, otherwise you can't pull him at will with your strength. Therefore, a woman should give a man a little freedom, so that he won't feel so bound, and it will be easy to get along with you, which is very important for grasping a man's heart.

4. Good skin.

Zhang Ailing said: "A man chooses a woman not because of how beautiful she is inside, but because the woman's outside brings him a good impression." A woman who is not beautiful on the outside has no chance to show her inner self. How can she tie a man's heart?

The sallow complexion, glossy face and deep wrinkles, no matter how good the face is, can hardly withstand the ravages of years. Maybe you are a mother who thinks that appearance and maintenance are no longer important, then you are all wet. Don't let the fatigue and hardship of life be exposed on your face. Take good care of yourself, not for others. That kind of self-confidence and beauty bring you unspeakable happiness and happiness, which makes the playboy man who abandoned you regret it!

5. Give each other some freedom.

Even if you get married, you need to leave private space for both sides. The tighter you push, the faster you disperse, the necessary entertainment between colleagues, and the occasional gathering between friends ... all of these are indispensable. Don't keep calling him home when they are entertaining, or even count the time to go home in minutes. These little behaviors in life can easily lead to emotional breakdown.

The space that smart women give men 3 How do smart women treat men?

1, the man who really loves you, all his thoughts and attention will be on you.

He will take the initiative to find you, contact you, text you and call you. He wants to know what you are doing all the time. He wants to know what you are doing. Are you happy? Are you happy? Are you in a good mood? Do you miss him?

I am willing to spend money for you, not being stingy with you, but being stingy with myself.

This is what happens when a man gives his heart to you. Men will spend money for you, but they are stingy with themselves. Although this man may not be very rich, he is willing to take you to experience high-end restaurants, such as steak and western food, but this man who loves you is very stingy to himself, but very stingy to you and generous to you!

3. I will take care of you, and my heart is full of you.

When a man gives you his heart, he will treat you as a child's pet. A man will cherish you, love you very much, take good care of you, take good care of you, care about your food, clothing, housing and transportation, care about your daily life. If you are sick, you will appear in time to accompany you and take care of you!

No matter what happens, you will be given priority.

Give your heart to your man, no matter what he does, he will give priority to you. When eating, he will give you priority, and the delicious food will also give you priority. If there is something delicious, I will give it to you for you to taste. If there is something interesting, I will definitely write it down and take you to play!

The way smart women handle their feelings.

1, understanding and gratitude.

In life, we often see women endlessly complaining and criticizing their men, thinking that he can't do anything well. It is very important and difficult to be considerate and grateful in marriage. It is not easy to understand her husband's working outside and know his suffering. And with a grateful heart, I thank my husband for his hard work. In this way, with a grateful heart, the husband will feel warm in his heart and will work harder for this family.

Don't care too much about his past.

Many women will clamor for their other half and tell themselves about their previous feelings, past experiences and so on. However, the past has become the past tense and should not be mentioned again. Smart women don't care too much about each other's past. Living in the present and looking forward to the future is her goal.

3. We won't take away all the big and small things.

It is said that a spoiled woman has the best life. In the summary of married life, many women may like to do everything well, but if you don't give men a chance to help you, it will not only make men lazier, but also make most women unhappy. Over time, they will take your efforts for granted and will not understand your hard work.

4. It is not easy to say separation.

There will inevitably be differences between men and women. Sometimes when the quarrel is fierce, they will break up and threaten each other to compromise, but it is likely to backfire. Smart women don't just break up, even if they are angry, they will give each other some quiet time and space.

5. The other party is only a part forever.

Some people say that when a woman has love, she has the whole world. Although love is very important in life, there are many important things in life, so love is only a part of life. The protagonist of your life should be yourself, not because of his appearance, so you can rest assured that you are attached to others. San Mao once said, "I have many rooms in my heart. Just come in and sit down."

6. Don't embarrass him in public

Everyone has face. Smart women know how to give men face. In public, I will definitely give each other face, and I will never quarrel or argue with each other in public. Will not embarrass each other when there are many people, not only give each other face, but also make each other love themselves more.

7, don't always comfort yourself, he loves me.

Never be a silly woman in love. For example, he often does things that hurt you. You choose to tolerate and forgive him, but you always comfort yourself that he still loves me. This is simply stupid, don't hypnotize yourself, don't be led by the nose by a man, his fault is his fault, don't forgive again and again, let go when it's time to let go, don't be reluctant, so it's always you who get hurt!

Smart women treat men like this.

First, keep a proper distance.

There are always boundaries between people, especially between the opposite sex, but also to keep a certain distance, whether for male friends or more intimate relationships-boyfriends. Because if there is no proper boundary between the opposite sex, it is easy to cross the border. We can't help making friends with the opposite sex, but their existence will also interfere with our breakup. Your soul mate is inevitably misunderstood and makes your partner emotional. When dealing with boyfriends, distance is also a part of increasing feelings. Distance produces beauty. Distance keeps both of them curious about each other, and both of them have independent space to ensure that their feelings can be kept fresh.

Second, don't say vague words.

No ambiguity is also a way for us to keep our distance. Friends are friends. If we do something that hurts our friends, such as using our opposite sex friends as spare tires, such friends will not last long. Making friends is an essential skill for us to walk in rivers and lakes, and connections are the pulse of money. Of course, some friends are the stops of our souls, which is a special existence. Such friends can't do things that hurt themselves. Friends of the opposite sex, such as underlovers, will change the direction of your relationship and affect your future contacts, so some smart women will get along with men in a man's way.

Third, show weakness but don't bully others

In terms of strength, women are indeed the weak elements of this society, and because of this, many times, they will be given preferential treatment, especially men. Smart women will naturally make good use of this to get men's good feelings, get men's help and make up for some of their shortcomings. Learn from each other's strengths and be good at asking for help. This is a manifestation of wisdom and a human skill. Emotionally, men should protect women who get along with their boyfriends and know how to show weakness. However, showing weakness does not mean that they can be bullied. Smart women will show weakness, but they will not feel inferior. Compared with the previous era, the status of women today is getting higher and higher, which is a gratifying progress for women. Times make women, and women are making this era. Women are advancing in this era. In a society dominated by men, they have learned to get along with men. There are more and more roses. A woman can be a princess of a man or a queen of a group of men.

Fourth, keep smiling and tolerant.

Compared with men's carelessness, women have another advantage: they are more sensitive to feelings and capture interpersonal feelings more accurately. Smart women will take advantage of this, and making good use of this will make people feel that women have high emotional intelligence. There is a saying called "making money with good intentions" and "reaching out and not seeing five fingers", which is also widely circulated. Girls who love to laugh will not be too unlucky. You will find that women who keep smiling, both men and women, will make people feel like spring breeze. Compared with most women's shyness and shyness, elegant women are better at finding both ends in men's circles.

The difference between a man loving you and playing with you.

If a man doesn't love you enough, there will be four manifestations, three of which will be put down as soon as possible:

1, when angry and quarreling, I often ignore you and never take the initiative to apologize to coax you.

A man who ignores you when he is angry is really chilling. Not only will he not coax you, but he won't even give you the minimum explanation. He just doesn't care about you. Obviously, he loves himself more! The man who really loves you can't bear to see you cry. He won't do anything to quarrel and break your heart.

2. On holidays, I will find various reasons not to buy you a gift, and I am not willing to spend money for you.

He won't surprise you, and will find all kinds of excuses to prevaricate you on holidays. The gift is not heavy, the important thing is that he doesn't have the heart. A man will spend money for you, don't expect him to be good to you in the future. These people are extremely selfish. A stingy person is as terrible as a narrow-minded person. You can't have a good life with such people.

My attitude towards you is always capricious. I will be careful when I need you, and I will scold you when I am in a bad mood.

Such a man doesn't care about your feelings at all. As for his attitude towards you, it depends entirely on his mood or his needs. If he needs you, he will be obedient to you and will always make you flattered. But if he doesn't need you, he will be cold and indifferent to you.

When you need him, you will never find him at the critical moment.

A man who really loves you, when you need him most, no matter how far you go or how busy you are, will take time out to see you, accompany you through the difficulties, regard him as your big tree and shelter you from the wind and rain. You weren't there when you were most needed, and you don't have to be there after that. At that time, you will finally understand that hospitality after a cold heart, like a cotton-padded jacket in summer and a cattail leaf fan in winter, has become meaningless.