Although Mama Dou didn't gossip about anything incredible, she also searched a circle of "excellent love letters" of primary school students on the Internet. After reading it, Mama Dou really wanted to say: I was taught!
How talented are primary school students now? Come on, let fancy love letters give you the answer!
Love letters are concise, gentle, outspoken and domineering. Which little girl can stand it?
Just bully people, is the tea in the office good?
Wow, the questionnaire love letter is really an eye-opener. How many points are deducted for answering a wrong question?
This classmate, do you know how many people have been hurt by your words?
Not much to say, I will forward it first. ...
Compared with the previous love letter, this love letter is much more exquisite in design and typesetting, illustrated and impeccable, and it is definitely a star of hope in the future design field!
After this short article named "The First Endeavour" was exposed, it immediately set off a heated discussion. Netizens think this baby's writing style is so good that they are fascinated by the first sentence. Some people say that the style of writing is like Lu Xun, and some people feel "I am old" when reading Lover.
And the author of this love letter composition is just an ordinary sixth grader!
Speaking of it, Mama Dou has been doing copywriting for many years, but in the face of these fancy "Houlang" love letters, she can only give up!
In fact, seeing this, many parents will inevitably fall into the deep thinking of "children's precocious thinking" while thinking that their children are "smart".
Lang Jun Yamashita, a child psychologist, once said, "The so-called precocity refers to the premature loss of children's characteristics. Precocity makes children lose their innocent character and shortens the happy period of childhood, which is not a lucky thing for children. "
Indeed, with the rapid progress of society and the improvement of quality of life, children are more mature physically and psychologically, but premature maturity will also have an impact on their growth.
What are the reasons why children think too early?
1, too much pressure
Parents should respect their children's nature and avoid guiding them in the way of adults, especially in the young age, children mainly complete their perception and understanding of the world through play, but there are also many parents who prevent their children from playing wildly and arrange full academic activities for their children.
Learning knowledge too early will stimulate children's brains and lead to precocity. And children will find ways to decompress under this pressure, such as fantasizing about dating beautiful women and so on.
2. The imitation object is single.
Children's imitation ability is very strong, and parents' words and deeds will become the object of imitation. Nowadays, there are many only children, and the language and behavior of children are mostly imitated by their parents and elders. Therefore, in the process of family education, parents' adult habits will exert a subtle influence on children.
3. Guided by bad content such as TV and movies.
Nowadays, children have a special liking for TV series and variety shows, and TV is full of love pictures and plots. Not to mention some bad cultures such as extramarital affairs and infidelity. Watching too many such programs will directly affect children's thinking and accelerate their premature maturity.
How do parents cope with children's precocious thinking?
1, treat it normally.
In fact, we don't have to make a fuss about children's precocious thinking and language maturity.
After all, adults want to be children and children want to be adults.
Many children are precocious unintentionally, and this process is often ignored by parents. At any time, children need the care and respect of their parents and want to have their own space. If parents educate their children in a radical way, it is likely to be counterproductive.
Tell your child the bottom line
If the child shows signs of puppy love, parents should tell the child what the bottom line is, let the child know what to do and what not to do, and what to do to avoid hurting others. No matter how much you like each other, this bottom line must not be crossed.
3.？ Communicate more and accompany more.
Children are full of curiosity about things they don't know. If parents can't "solve doubts" for their children in time, they will look for answers to satisfy their curiosity. For example, using online search, many bad information on the Internet will affect their children.
Therefore, parents should communicate more with their children and spend more time with them. When they find a problem, they can help them answer it at the first time. Especially when children begin to fantasize about the opposite sex, parents simply tell their children generously that this is a normal feeling and everyone will have it. We should face such feelings correctly and healthily.
If parents are embarrassed to say it because of the so-called "shame", it will stimulate the child's curiosity and make him "eager to try and try every means."
Children are a colorful life map, and how parents educate and guide them is the key to help children avoid "excessive precocity". A child who grows up in a caring environment is more active, even if he is "precocious" in speech and behavior.
Does your child also show signs of "precocity"? Welcome to share it with mom!