? When we get along with the people around us, classmates or colleagues, do we subconsciously want to please them?

Pleasing others is a behavior that makes others or yourself feel happy and joyful from the bottom of your heart. In order to get others to help you, to make others happy, or to mix in some interests, etc..., you will make others feel happy and superior by complimenting others, giving things to others, inviting people to dinner, etc., so as to achieve some aspects. Purpose and consciousness.

? For example, if we change a place to go to school or work, we can see and discover the people around us, in order to make friends or see that the other person's family is rich and powerful, etc... . It doesn't matter if you try to butter up the other person and make friends, even if you don't mean it. You can think back to why our parents asked us to bring more food to our roommates and new classmates when we started school, and also said that we should have a good relationship and not be bullied by others.

? At that time, I didn’t understand what the use of this was? It doesn’t matter if you bring it or not! I really don’t understand what parents are thinking? When we go out to work, we will find that every new colleague brings a lot of food, and basically everyone has a share. When someone brings food but doesn’t share it with several people, others will wonder if you did it on purpose! Why are you so ignorant? Afterwards, they gossiped behind our backs and did things against us.

? I didn’t know much about it when I was in school. Of course I wouldn’t take it with me when I went out to work. I feel there is no need to please others. If I don’t have enough to eat and it will make me unhappy, I won’t do it. There is no need to make yourself unhappy in order to please others when it is not necessary, unless it is something special and there is no other way. Hopefully, none of us will have to please others.

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