You come to work to make money, not to make friends. If you can make friends, it will be a surprise. If you cannot make friends, it is normal.

In the workplace, there are many cute girls who are very naive and always bring their own emotions and hobbies into it. I often care too much about how I feel about my colleagues. I feel that this colleague is not good, or that a colleague is not good to me, which will hurt me and affect my normal work.

In fact, as an adult, you should abide by some adult rules and have some professional ethics when you come to work. In addition to respecting your work, you should also treat your colleagues at work the same way. You cannot choose your work partners, they are chosen by your boss or HR. No matter how bad this person is or how he doesn't like you, you have to remember that your ultimate goal is to do the job well. Everyone must do the job at hand well, so that the whole team can complete their work.

Whenever one person drops the chain midway, it affects the entire work.

Your work partner is your partner when you are at work, but after get off work, they can be nothing and live their own lives.

I met colleague A like this. He was a nice person, but he just looked down upon a little girl in the company. That little girl is down-to-earth and willing to work, but she doesn't speak tactfully and is straightforward. In the eyes of the boss, this little girl is a good employee who is willing to endure hardships and work hard. When other employees have trouble, the little girl can always step in.

But A doesn’t know why, but he just can’t stand her in any way, so he teamed up with a few good sisters to isolate the little girl. This little girl is very honest and has never complained to the boss. On the other hand, A often complains to his boss.

The boss also often finds that the atmosphere in the company is sometimes very cold. Then I also asked A to mediate the matter and asked A not to be like this. After all, this is a work relationship, and the first thing is to do a good job. The little girl did not make any big mistakes at work, and she is indispensable. Every time A and A are involved in family affairs, When I can't go to work, the little girl takes my place. So think of the little girl.

And you just don’t want to be friends with the little girl after get off work. Don’t make it too embarrassing at work.

But A couldn’t listen to it. Maybe he felt that there were 5 employees in his department, and 3 of them were his best friends. Still keep making trouble.

Later, after three attempts at mediation, the boss failed to achieve any results. He ran out of patience and finally used the simplest and most brutal method to fire A and her two best friends.

The boss said afterwards: People who bring trouble to the company and bring instability cannot be retained in the future, and they will not bother to mediate. It would be much easier to just replace them. .

You come to work to make money, not to make friends. If you can make friends, it will be a surprise. If you cannot make friends, it is normal.