Why is it that the more affluent and developed areas are, the lower people's EQ is, and the more poor and backward areas or environments are, the easier it is for people to communicate with each other? This phenomenon is nothing strange, but it is really worth thinking about. My relatives are also in the countryside. In rural areas, because the entertainment items are single, and the courtyards of rural people are all open, unlike the buildings in cities, which are all closed independently, another reason is that there are almost no migrants and floating population in rural areas, and there is a lack of prevention between people. I also have a strong desire to make friends with people. Most rural people do not have high-level information needs, and their personal information needs are too single. The content of the chat is mostly talking about home and talking nonsense. Talking about success, peace talks and cooperation, and business opportunities are mostly talked about by city people on wine tables and teahouses. For some unemployed people, the urban poor and some elderly people, most of them chat in the corner downstairs in the city. Such people will never talk about enterprise development strategy and enterprise merger and acquisition plan. In a word, it is one-sided to think that the decline of emotional intelligence, communication ability and affinity between people is caused by science and technology. It can only be said that science and technology have brought people a brand-new way of communication and lifestyle. Because it can bring some similar people closer and distinguish them from different people. For example, Koukou Group and WeChat Group have brought many similar people closer together, and people from all over the world can be together. As for you, why don't hotel owners or employees chat with customers? Because business is busy, they don't have time to chat alone. If you go to a small restaurant, the boss and employees are very idle, and it is impossible to chat with customers for a long time, because it is very angry not to make money. Rural people pass the time by chatting, while urban people mostly have fun and chat in their own groups. There are too many floating people in the city to get along with a group of people for a long time, because people they know don't know where they have been for days or years, and gradually city people lose their warm communication with strangers around them. Because this person may disappear as soon as he establishes a relationship. For rural people, they are all fixed residents with little mobility, so it takes a long time to build feelings and communicate. For the technology products that make children autistic, you should think that games are a social means between people at present. For example, we used to drink and chat together, but now we play online games together. You can make new friends by playing online games. It is true that many people have lost their natural thinking and lived in fantasy, but in the future, human beings will enter the universe because there are too many people on earth. At present, this seemingly pathological behavior of relying on science and technology may be a necessary living condition for human beings in the future, just as most people now have to be able to drive and use smart phones. Moreover, the indifference of relying on science and technology has promoted psychological counseling and the fever of Chinese studies, and stimulated new economic growth points. In a word, what you are talking about is a natural social phenomenon, and there is nothing to make a fuss about. Technology has changed people's lives, but it's not as bad as you think. In fact, you should think more about what benefits technology has brought us. Technology makes people more progress, and people are constantly evolving with the progress of technology. How clever children are nowadays. /kloc-people aged 0/5 may know more than people over 30. Knowing more is the evolution driven by technology. I feel that most of these people are individuals who have not progressed with the progress of science and technology. Such people are the people who promote the development of psychology and Chinese studies. Science and technology are human psychological diseases and abnormal behaviors. It can only show that his shortcomings and deficiencies have promoted spiritual construction and spiritual economy.