However, refusal can also be divided into three situations, and different situations have different treatment methods:

First, this man's EQ is OK. You can fish in troubled waters by playing dumb. There is no need to express everything in words. You are an asshole and a pervert. You just have bad intentions for me. If the other party knows what you are thinking, it will naturally be serious, so that friends will continue to do it without embarrassment.

Second, when this man's emotional intelligence is not good and he can't get through playing dumb, you should point it out directly. If the other person doesn't have a bad heart, but loves you and doesn't know the status quo, then it is the best way to wake him up in two or three sentences and let him retreat. This is definitely not an injury to him, but a kind of help. If the fallen petal never knows your mind, he still mistakenly thinks that running water has feelings.

Third, the pure meaning of elegance is hooking up. Don't give him face. People whose spirit is meaningless to him, I agree with your righteous resignation to wake him up. Seriously, seriously, resolutely, and resolutely, otherwise it will have no effect.