Personally, I think she doesn't like foreigners, which may be just an excuse. It is true that the other person should not want to associate with you. Since the other party has no intention to associate with you, you can't force the other party. I suggest you let nature take its course. However, I suggest you keep her away from your life slowly, otherwise you will have a dilemma with her after she associates with others, and it will also cause you secondary harm.