No matter when two people get along, they need one condition, and that is trust; as long as one party crosses the bottom line, your original intention will change, and slowly you will no longer have the good impression before. If the two people are not suitable , still need to be mentioned in advance!

First of all, find out whether your girlfriend really likes you, and then think about him from his perspective. Maybe he wants to satisfy his parents, or there may be other reasons. Some things are visible to the eyes. It may not be true, but if he doesn't like you, there is no need to be together. The first time he can do such a thing behind your back, will he cheat next time? But don't be impulsive yourself. Let’s get things straight first.

Maybe it was arranged by the family, but I couldn’t shirk it. I didn’t tell you because I didn’t want you to think too much. You can talk to her calmly. I believe that as long as two people have a good relationship and are willing to communicate, there is nothing that cannot be solved. Don't be pessimistic, things may not be that bad.

I have really experienced this problem personally, and I will share my experience with you:

After my girlfriend and I confirmed our relationship in private, she, under the persuasion of her parents, Go on a blind date behind my back. The reason is simple. Her parents don't think highly of me and think I can't give her daughter happiness. And my girlfriend is also very realistic. There is a saying that before marriage, a man only focuses on his own girlfriend, because in his eyes, other women are not suitable, and only his own girlfriend is the most suitable. On the contrary, a woman may have her eyes on several suitable partners who can get married, and choose the best one among them.

When the kind-hearted neighbor sister secretly told me this, I was actually angry, but when I calmed down and thought about it from my girlfriend’s perspective, I stopped being angry. After all, I still like her very much. . I pretended not to know anything about it and didn't question her face to face. I bought the things my girlfriend usually likes to eat and some other gifts for her. I also bought some gifts for her parents. Her dad loves to smoke, so I bought him two expensive cigarettes. Her mom likes to drink liquor, so I bought a few bottles of decent wine for her.

I stayed at her house for two or three days, but there was a premise: my girlfriend didn’t hate me, otherwise even if she didn’t kick me out, I wouldn’t be able to stay at her house. My girlfriend's family is in a rural area, and I am also a rural child. I am eager to do all her farm work, such as chopping firewood, fetching water, cooking, washing dishes, etc. And it was fine. I chatted with her parents and made them feel that I am a good person, quite sensible and filial. Her neighbors and her uncles, aunts, cousins, and cousins ??have a good relationship and play cards with them. They will always stand by me and say good things about me in front of my girlfriend and her family. I would come to my girlfriend's house for two days every now and then, and I would become familiar with him. People have feelings, and he was gradually accepted by their family.