This is a true story and the author's own personal experience.
True feelings are the most touching.
This is the most touching text in 2004 and the most reprinted article in 2004.
Countless people shed tears for her.
The world has its own true feelings, and only mothers are good in the world.
I wish all mothers in the world happiness! ! !
Twenty-three years ago, a young woman came to our village, unkempt, giggling at everyone and urinating in public without hesitation. Therefore, the daughter-in-law in the village often spits on the woman, and some daughters-in-law even stepped forward to kick her and told her to "get out of here". But she just wouldn't go, still giggling and wandering around the village.
At that time, my father was 35 years old. He used to work in a quarry, and his left hand was interrupted by a machine. Because of his poor family, he has never married. Grandma saw that the woman was still somewhat beautiful, so she moved her mind and decided to accept her as my father's daughter-in-law. She was driven away after she renewed her fragrance for my family. Although my father was reluctant, he looked at the situation at home and gritted his teeth and agreed. As a result, my father became the groom without spending a penny.
When my mother gave birth to me, my grandmother hugged me, with a few teeth left, and said happily, "This crazy woman gave birth to a grandson with a handle." It's just that when I was born, my grandmother took me away and never let my mother near me.
My mother always wanted to hug me and repeatedly shouted "Come, give it to me ..." Grandma ignored her. I am so small, like a meat toot. What if my mother accidentally dropped me on the ground? After all, mom is crazy. Whenever my mother asks for a hug, grandma always stares at her and tells her, "Don't try to hug the baby, I won't give it to you." If I find you hugging him secretly, I will kill you. Even if I don't kill you, I will kick you out. " Grandma didn't mean anything vague when she said this. Mom understood, her face was full of fear, and she just looked at me from a distance every time. Although my mother's breasts are swollen badly, I can't eat half of my mother's milk. My grandmother feeds me spoon by spoon. Grandma said that there was a "psycho" in my mother's milk, so it would be troublesome to infect me.
At that time, my family was still struggling in the quagmire of poverty Especially after my mother and I were added, the pot often failed to open at home. Grandma decided to get rid of her mother because she not only ate idle meals at home, but also made trouble from time to time.
One day, grandma cooked a big pot of rice and personally added a big bowl to her mother, saying, "Wife, this family is too poor. My mother-in-law is sorry for you." After you finish this bowl of rice, you will go to live with a richer family and never come again, huh? "Niang mouth just baked a big meal, heard grandma's marching orders, very surprised. A big meal stagnated in her mouth. My mother looked at me in my grandmother's arms and muttered, "No, don't ..." Grandma suddenly lowered her face, took out a dignified paternalistic style and shouted sharply, "You crazy bitch, why are you so stubborn? There is no good fruit for you to eat. You've been wandering around. I have taken you in for two years. What do you want? Leave after dinner, do you hear? " Grandma said, and took out a hoe from behind the door and slammed it on the ground like Long Touzhang of Yu Taijun, making a sound. Niang was startled, looked at her mother-in-law timidly, and slowly lowered her head to look at the rice bowl in front of her. Tears fell on glistening rice. Under the strong light, Niang suddenly made a very strange move. She gave more than half of the rice in one bowl to another empty bowl, and then looked at her grandmother piteously.
Grandma froze. It turned out that Niang told her that she only ate half a bowl of rice for every meal, just begging not to drive her away. My heart seems to have been pulled hard. Grandma is also a woman, and her tough attitude is also fake. Grandma didn't go too far. She held back her tears and said with a straight face, "Eat, eat and go." You will starve to death in my house. "Niang seems desperate, did not even eat half a bowl of rice, lang lang stagger out of the door, but stood in front of the door for a long time. Grandma hardened her heart and said, "Go, go and don't look back. There are many rich families in the world! " Instead, the mother came over and put her hand into her mother-in-law's arms. It turns out that mom wants to hug me.
Grandma was depressed for a while, but she gave me to her mother like a baby. My mother held me in her arms for the first time, and she smiled brightly. But grandma put her hand under me, for fear that my mother's madness would throw me away like garbage. My mother held me for less than three minutes, and my grandmother couldn't wait to pull me away, then turned and closed the door.
When I was ignorant, I discovered that all my friends had mothers except me. I asked my father, and I also asked my grandmother. They said, your mother is dead. But my little friend told me, "Your mother is crazy and your grandmother drove her away." I asked my grandmother to give my mother back to me, called her "grandma wolf", and even spilled the rice she brought me all over the floor. At that time, I didn't have the concept of "crazy", but I missed her very much. What does she look like? Still alive? Unexpectedly, when I was six years old, my mother, who had been away from home for five years, came back.
That day, several friends flew in and reported, "Xiaoshu, go and see, your mother is back, and your crazy mother is back." I ran out happily, and my parents followed me. This is the first time I have seen my mother since I can remember. She is still in rags, and there are some yellow grass clippings in her hair. God knows she spent the night in that haystack. Mother didn't dare to enter the house, just facing my house, sitting on the stone pile in the rice field in front of the village, holding a dirty balloon in her hand. When I stood in front of her with a group of friends, she was eager to find her son among us. My mother finally stared at me, staring at me all the time, cracking her mouth and calling me, "Little tree … ball … ball." She stood up, kept raising the balloon in her hand and threw herself into my arms please. I keep retreating. I'm disappointed. I didn't expect my mother, whom I miss day and night, to look like this. A little friend said, "Xiaoshu, do you know what crazy people are like now?" Just like your mother. "
I said angrily to my little friend, "She is your mother! Your mother is crazy, your mother is like this. " I turned my head and ran. I don't want this crazy mother. Grandma and dad led the mother into the door. At that time, after grandma kicked her mother out, her conscience was tortured. With the aging day by day, her heart couldn't harden any more, so she left her mother voluntarily, and my boss didn't like it either, because she lost my face.
I have never given my mother a good look, never talked to her on my own initiative, and never even called her "Niang". The communication between us is mainly based on my "roar", and my mother never dares to talk back.
Mom can't be left at home for nothing, so grandma decided to train her to do some chores. When working in the field, grandma took her mother out to "watch" and said she would be beaten if she didn't obey.
A few days later, grandma thought Niang was trained by herself, so she told her to go out and cut pig grass alone. Unexpectedly, mother cut two baskets of "pig grass" in half an hour. Grandma looked worried and panicked. Mother cut the rice that was beating and heading in someone else's field. Grandma angrily scolded her: "Crazy woman doesn't care about food and grass ..." When Grandma was thinking about how to clean up the mess, the owner of the rice field came and said that she deliberately instigated it. Grandma flew into a rage, took out a stick in front of others and knocked it on her lower back, saying, "Kill you crazy bitch, get out of my way ..."
Although mother is crazy, she knows the pain. She jumped away from the stick and kept wailing "No, no …". Finally, people couldn't stand it anymore and said, "Forget it, we won't pursue it. Be strict with her in the future ... "After the storm subsided, Mother lay on the ground sobbing. I disdainfully said to her, "You can't tell grass from rice. You are really a pig. " As soon as I spoke, I got a slap on the back of my head, which was played by my grandmother. Grandma glared at me and scolded me, "Little Rabbit, what are you talking about?" If you do this again, she's your mother, too! "I disdain a pie mouth:" I don't have such a stupid crazy mother! " "
"Wow, you are getting more and more ridiculous. See if I don't hit you! " Grandma raised her hand again. At this time, I saw my mother jump up from the ground like a spring and lie between me and my grandmother. My mother pointed to her head and cried, "hit me, hit me."
I see, mom told grandma to hit her, not me. Grandma hung her hand in mid-air and murmured, "This crazy woman knows how to love her children!" " "Soon after I went to school, my father was invited by a professional fish farmer in a neighboring village to guard the fish pond and earn 50 yuan a month. My mother still goes out to work under the leadership of my grandmother, mainly to fight pig grass, which has not caused any big trouble.
I remember a winter day in the third grade of primary school. I was hungry and suddenly it began to rain. My grandmother asked my mother to give me an umbrella. Mother may have fallen several times all the way, and she looks like an eye inflammation. She stood by the window of the classroom and looked at me with a smirk. She also called, "Tree ... Umbrella ..." Some students giggled. I'm on pins and needles. I hate my mother. I hate her ignorance, hate her embarrassing me, and hate Fan Jiaxi who took the lead in heckling. While he was still exaggerating, I grabbed the pencil case in front of me and threw it at him, but Fan Jiaxi dodged. He rushed forward and grabbed my neck, and we tore it apart. I'm small, I'm no match for him at all, and he knocked me down easily. At this moment, I heard a long whistle of "Ow" coming from outside the classroom. Mother flew in like a soldier, grabbed Fan Jiaxi and dragged her outside. It's true that a madman has great strength. Mother lifted Fan Jiaxi, who bullied me, into the air with both hands. He screamed with fear, and a pair of chubby calves kicked around in the air. Mother ignored him, threw him into the pond at the school gate, and then walked away with a cold face.
Mom made a big mistake for me, but she seems fine. In front of me, my mother resumed a timid expression and looked at me please. I understand that this is maternal love. Even if she is unconscious, maternal love is sober, because her son has been bullied by others. At that time, I couldn't help crying: "Mom!" This is the first time I have called her since I can speak. Mom was shocked, looked at me for a long time, then blushed like a child, grinned and looked silly. That day, our mother and son came home with an umbrella for the first time. I told my grandmother about it, and she was so scared that she fell down on the chair and called her father back at once. Dad had just entered the house when a group of mature men with knives and sticks broke into my house. They smashed pots and pans, and it was like a magnitude 9 earthquake at home. These are the people invited by Fan Jiaxi's family. Fan Fu pointed to his father's nose and said, "My son is scared out of his mind and is now lying in the hospital. If your family doesn't pay 1000 medical bills, I will fucking burn your family down. "
1000? Dad is only 50 yuan a month! Looking at the murderous Fan family, my father's eyes slowly burned red. He stared at his mother with terrible eyes, quickly took off the belt around his waist with one hand and hit her in the past. Time and time again, mother jumps and hides helplessly like a mouse living in fear and like a prey running into a dead end. I will never forget her harsh voice and the crisp sound of the belt on her. Finally, the director of the police station came to stop dad's violent hands. As a result of mediation by the police station, both sides have losses and no debts. Arrest anyone who makes trouble! After a group of people left, dad looked at the broken pots and bowls all over the room, and then at his scarred mother. Suddenly, he put his arms around her and cried, "crazy woman, I didn't want to hit you, or I would." This will not work, and we can't afford to lose others. " This is all caused by poverty! "Dad looked at me again and said," Shuer, you must study hard before you can go to college. "Otherwise, we will be bullied for life!" I nodded wisely.
In the summer of 2000, I was admitted to high school with excellent results. My grandmother died unfortunately because of overwork, which made life at home more difficult. Enshi Civil Affairs Bureau lists my family as a poor household and subsidizes 40 yuan every month. My high school has also reduced my tuition and fees appropriately, so that I can continue my studies.
Because I study hard, I seldom go home. My father is still working for 50 yuan, so the burden of delivering meals to me falls on my mother. Every time my aunt next door always helps me copy pickles for my mother to eat. The loss of mother on the 20 km Yangchangshan Road was firmly recorded, rain or shine. It is a miracle that the mother is not crazy about what she has done for her son. Besides maternal love, I can't explain how to decipher this phenomenon in medicine.
On April 27th, 2003, another Sunday, my mother came and brought me not only vegetables, but also a dozen wild peaches. I picked up one, took a bite, smiled and asked her, "It's quite sweet. Where did it come from? " Mother said, "I ... I picked it ..." I didn't expect her to pick wild peaches. I sincerely praised her, "Mom, you are really getting more and more capable." Niang hey hey smiled.
Before my mother left, I told her to pay attention to safety, and my mother replied. After seeing my mother off, I plunged into the final review before the college entrance examination. The next day, when I was in class, my aunt hurried to school and asked the teacher to shout me out of the classroom. My aunt asked my mother if she had delivered any food. I said yes, she went back yesterday. Menstruation said, "No, she hasn't come home yet." My heart is tight, my mother should not go the wrong way, right? But she has been on this road for three years. She can't go wrong. Menstruation asked, "Your mother didn't say anything?" I said no, she brought me a dozen wild peaches. Aunt clapped her hands and said, "It's broken, maybe it's broken in this wild peach." My aunt asked me for leave and we walked back along the mountain road. On the way home, there were indeed a few wild peach trees. There were a few peaches hanging sparsely on the peach trees, which were preserved because they grew on the cliff. At the same time, we found a peach tree with broken branches and an abyss under it. My aunt looked at me and said, "Let's go under the cliff!" " "I said," Aunt, don't scare me ... "Aunt jumped on me and walked into the valley. ...
Mother lay quietly at the bottom of the valley, surrounded by some scattered peaches. She still holds one tightly in her hand, and the blood has already solidified into a heavy black. My insides are torn by sadness. I hugged my mother tightly and said, "mom, my evil mother, I regret that this peach is sweet." It was my son who killed you ... Mom, you didn't enjoy a good life alive ... "I leaned my head on my mother's cold face, and all the stones crying all over the mountain accompanied me to cry. ...
On August 7th, 2003, on the100th day after my mother was buried, the admission notice of Hubei University bronzing passed through the road my mother walked, the wild peach trees, the rice fields in front of the village and flew straight into my home. I put this late letter in my mother's cold grave: "Mom, my son made a promise, did you hear that?" You can smile in the grave.
Mother, parents
An American war correspondent who came back from Vietnam showed MBA students a film he actually shot on the battlefield: in the picture, a group of people were fleeing, and suddenly there was the sound of machine guns firing in the distance, and small figures fell down. After the performance, he asked the students what they saw. "What a bloody killing picture!" Without saying anything, he shook the film back and played it again, pointing to one of the characters: "Look! Everyone fell down at the same time, only this one fell slowly, and instead of falling forward, he squatted down slowly ... "See the students still don't understand. He actually twitched: "After the gunfight, I took a closer look and found a young mother with a child in her arms. Before being shot, she squatted down slowly for fear of hurting her youngest son. She is enduring death.
"endure not to die!" What a great mother!
In fact, there are many more people who have maternal love in the world. Every living thing has a great maternal love! Scientists visiting South America often see thousands of penguins standing in the same direction in snowstorms. What makes them so neatly in the same direction? After careful observation, the team members finally found that there was a furry little thing in front of every big penguin. It turns out that they are a group of great mothers, guarding the children in front of them. Because their bellies are too round to be higher than the chicks, they have to use their bodies to resist the biting cold wind.
What a great group of growing mothers!
Be black and blue for love
-dedicated to the person who loves me the most in the world.
My mother lost a front tooth in her twenties. At that time, her family was poor, so she didn't make it up. Gradually, a row of teeth began to tilt, move and hurt, and finally she had to pull them out one by one. I lost my last tooth until the other day. I took my mother to the clinic, and I knew from her eyes that she was scared. After the anesthetic, she held my hand tightly and watched the doctor pull out her tooth alive. Suddenly, she was bleeding profusely, and sanitary napkins were red everywhere. I closed my eyes tightly and didn't dare to look, and my heart trembled. Only this time was my mother accompanied when she pulled out her teeth, and she pulled out more than ten other teeth by herself. I can never forgive myself, because all this is thanks to me! I stood in her arms crying and lost my mother's first tooth!
Mother's eyes can't stand the oil smoke. Whenever there is smoke in the room, her eyes are red, swollen and tearful. Not to mention fried pancakes. I used to find fault with every delicious meal, but I know that my mother cooked every meal with tears. So I began to feel a dull pain in my chest, because it was also thanks to me. When I was in junior high school, my home was eighteen miles away from school. I have to stay in school in winter, and the food in the school cafeteria is not good, so my mother brought me cakes with oil, sugar and flour. Three years without interruption! So my eyes are smoking.
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Mother's hands are rough, with hard calluses and several mottled knife marks. Once I saw my mother cut her hand with a kitchen knife. It was China New Year, and we were going to eat chicken. When mom cut it, the frozen meat slipped and the knife actually cut two fingers. It's shocking that the blood is flowing like that. My strong mother's tears merged into two streams of clean water, and my heart seemed to stop beating in pain. After the dressing, the blood quickly spread red on the white cloth, but my mother didn't say a word, and every meal in the future was still so delicious! Other wounds are also scarred, and there must be a lot of blood. You can imagine how painful it was at that time! I didn't see it with my own eyes and you never said anything!
Mom's mouth is a little crooked. It was a dark night. Mother cooked dinner for us and watched us fall asleep. Lock the door and bet on dad. When I came back in the cold wind, my mouth was crooked The old people all said it was a thief's wind, and they tried their best to treat it or left sequelae. A good face is ruined like this!
Mother often suffers from insomnia all night. I don't know how she survived those nights when she was sober. I only know that the next day she cooked and worked in the fields as usual, feeding chickens and ducks, washing clothes and cleaning the room. Three children and two fields, all by herself. And my father left us for more than ten years. The mother suffered great mental torture and did all the work for her children. Like men, she works as a migrant worker, defecates, plows and shovels, and especially piles firewood in autumn. She undertakes all the work that those men do, and at the same time makes shoes and cotton-padded clothes to clean up, and we also clean up other people's children. My repeated thoughts of quitting school were dismissed by her, and my mother said that the suffering she suffered in her life would never be borne by her children again. So she is the only one who faces all the hardships!
Mother has a serious heart disease, and she usually walks with difficulty. It was left by my sister after a week of nursing in the hospital when she gave birth to the baby. My sister has a mother-in-law, and I don't want her to go, but her eagerness makes me understand that she must go. So that week in a noisy hospital, she didn't sleep for seven days, and her heart was devastated. Of course, her heart is overwhelmed, and I know how cruel life is to her. The betrayal of love and years of heavy physical labor can't beat my strong mother. To her complete collapse, her youngest son, whom she regarded as life, killed someone at the age of eighteen. She waited for her brother's verdict day and night with her eyes open. At that time, she did not know whether she could be sentenced to death or life imprisonment. Even I am going to collapse, not to mention my mother? Later, my brother was sentenced to 13 years, and we all thanked God for his mercy!
Mom, at that time I gave up everything in the metropolis and came back to you. I'm glad I'm strong enough to share your pain. I held you in my arms like a baby when you had a nervous breakdown. Tears often flow like spring water.
Not for my brother, but for your pain. Remember, you had a hard day on the battlefield. I will clumsily cook a terrible dinner, and you will cry while holding me and say it is delicious. Remember, on the night of Mid-Autumn Festival, I was harvesting soybeans in the field with you. Looking at the round moon in the sky, envious of family reunion. I often cheat my teacher into asking for leave to help you. I go to the fields after school every day, and I can't stop crying when I see your lonely figure in the sunset glow. Curse the sun, why it is so hot, why there is so much farm work, and why it is so bitter. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? I've always wanted to protect you, and my greatest wish is to take you out of your misery!
Now, I give up my love, my marriage, my career as a metropolis reporter and come back to accompany you. I am proud to support a family with you and heal all your wounds. Mother's Day is coming again. Writing this article brings tears to my eyes. And declare to the world that I want to give you a happy old age. Bless you, my mother! I wish you a long and healthy life and happiness every day.
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About friendship
Essay:
1. That night, when I came home exhausted, I accidentally saw a postcard from a distant friend, which said, "Are you okay in your hometown?" Reading this greeting across thousands of waters in Qian Shan, an irresistible warm breath came to my face, which made me intoxicated in the spring breeze, refreshing my mind and relieving fatigue. I vividly recall what Dumas said: "Friendship is also like a flower. If you repair it well, you can be proud. " I can't help but sigh: it's delicious to have a sincere and lasting friendship!
Birds need nests, spiders need webs, and people need friendship.
Friendship is a rainbow that adorns our lives: friendship is a bright lamp that shines on our souls; Friendship is a clear spring that nourishes our lives; Friendship is a stove that warms our lives. From this, we can see Bacon's sentence, "Lack of true friends is the purest and most pitiful loneliness;" Without friendship, the world is just a wilderness. I deeply agree with this famous saying; I cherish friendship and try my best to follow belinsky's point of view: "True friendship is not asking for anything from each other, but doing everything for each other"; I appreciate friendship more. It allows us to enjoy "the most important happiness among all the happiness brought by wisdom".
Appreciate the happiness that friendship gives us. Fear of loneliness is human nature. When we are bored and have a little leisure, we always plunge into friendship for fun. Although the horizon is close at hand, the sky is vast and people's thoughts are flying. So, loneliness is gone, loneliness is gone, and happiness, like a bird, flies into our hearts.
Appreciate the lessons that friendship has taught us. No one is perfect. Making friends helps us learn from others' strengths and make up for our own shortcomings, thus enriching our minds, improving our self-cultivation, perfecting ourselves and enriching our lives. So Kong Ziyun; "Friends are straightforward, friends forgive, and friends listen more, which is beneficial." Indeed, interacting with honest, knowledgeable friends and being influenced by their words and deeds will be imperceptible for a long time, and it will also be close to Zhu Zhechi. This is "living with goodness, like entering the blue room, not smelling its fragrance for a long time." However, when we accidentally go astray, unconsciously or self-righteous, friends' advice on demand-advice and suggestions-is better and more beneficial than gems and pearls.
Appreciate the warmth of friendship. Accidents will happen. Only when we encounter difficulties can we see the sincerity of our friends. It is this sincerity that makes us realize the charm of friendship and the beauty of human nature.
Feeling friendship is a good feeling for everyone who cherishes the true feelings and loves life. It is enough to have a bosom friend in life. Guo Xiaochuan's poem "Shu wine, a thousand cups are not drunk; I think I wrote it in the same mood.
Yes, "friendship unites people, and it is precisely because of this that friendship is gentle and sweet." Let's win and harvest more pure and beautiful friendships with the sense of friendship!
2. Friends are just. . . .
People who don't come to see you for any reason.
A person who swims with you for a few days, but can eat at most without drinking tea.
A person who has been raining repeatedly, you are still holding his melancholy, but he has finished his diary and vacated his seat.
Someone who has done something disgraceful and can tell you.
Someone who is willing to buy you a present.
A person who is busy collecting memory records between friends and filing them so that he can live in peace of mind.
What is friendship? You may be surprised that I don't even understand friendship, but it was only after that that I really understood its meaning.
At noon that day, the sun was still breathing fire, shining violently on the earth as if to scorch it. Cao Qing, Yu Pei and I are hiding in the shade and jumping rubber bands. We discussed the weather while jumping rubber bands. Cao Qing said, "The weather forecast also says it will rain today. I think it is a lie. " I also support her point of view. Yu Pei said, "It doesn't look like rain in such fine weather."
But after the second class in the afternoon, the weather forecast was biased. After a while, the sky was overcast, and we rushed into the classroom. After a while, a silver light pierced the sky, Lei Gong blew a whistle, and Miss Yu spilled the best and most pearls.
After school, everyone went their separate ways. As for me, I am standing on the roadside outside the school, hoping that the rain will stop, because according to the distance from my home and the slow running speed, it is enough for me to take a big bath. Suddenly, an umbrella blocked the sky above me. As soon as I turned around, it turned out that my good friend Zhao Mali was behind me. She smiled sweetly and said, "Let's go home together." I was so happy that I walked into the rain talking and laughing with her and forgot all my troubles just now.
Soon, we will reach the fork in the road. I guess I'll just have to spell it. I was about to rush into the rain when she suddenly said, "Here, take this umbrella." I said, "How can this work? Aren't you going to get wet? " She smiled: "It doesn't matter, my home is near, and it's only a few steps away. Your home is far away, you'd better hurry home, or your parents will be in a hurry. " I was so moved that I didn't know what to say, but I said "thank you" when I heard it.
Along the way, I feel heavy and full of friendship.
My most complete, I hope to bring you help.