second, the influence of proximate cause.
That is the impression left by the last meeting between people, and this impression is the longest in each other's mind. Take advantage of the close effect, when you are separated from your friend, give him a better blessing, and your image will be beautified in his heart. This beautification is likely to have an impact on your later life.
third, the halo effect.
as the saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. When lovers fall in love, they think that everything they do is good and everything they do is right. Even what others think is a shortcoming is nothing to the other party, which is a manifestation of the halo effect. The aura has certain negative effects. Under this psychological effect, it is difficult for you to distinguish between good and bad, true and false, and it is easy to be used by others. Therefore, people should have a certain sense of defense in the social process.
fourth, defensive psychology.
most people may have a feeling that when two people are alone, we always have some precautions. When there are many people, they will feel that they don't have their own space and worry about whether their belongings are safe. Your diary is always locked tightly for fear that your secret will be taken away by others. For these, you need to strengthen. This kind of defensive psychology will have a negative impact in the process of communication and hinder the normal communication between people.