1. Don’t be too good. You can refuse things you don’t want to do. Don’t force things you can’t do. Pretend you didn’t hear if you don’t like it. Your life is not to please others, but to be kind to yourself.
2. Even if the whole world denies you, you must believe in yourself. If you live in the eyes of others, you will be lost in your own heart. You can never satisfy everyone, and you don’t have to distort yourself to please the world.
3. Don’t live like a victim and rush to tell everyone about your misfortune. One day you will find that you have to taste the ups and downs by yourself, and you have to live a long life by yourself. You have to work hard to become stronger and then take charge of yourself.
4. You can ask yourself to be nice to others, but you cannot expect others to be nice to you. How you treat others does not mean how they will treat you. If you cannot see through this, you will only cause unnecessary troubles.
5. Use a smile to vent your sadness, use silence to decorate the pain, even if you are pretending, you must pretend to be the happy one. If you are not strong in the road of life, no one will be brave for you!
6. If you want others to take your feelings into consideration, don’t do everything to accommodate other people’s feelings. Only by keeping your own bottom line can you gain the respect of others.