1. Don’t expect others to give you any financial help. Money is not enough for anyone. (Learn to give);

2. It is a good deed and a moral thing for your friends to help you; it is understandable for your friends not to help you, and you should not feel resentful, because they do not owe you anything! (Learn to understand);

3. Know that no one has to help you when you need it, only you, so you are independent and strong. Happiness, happiness, is what you need to do. After all, you are the only one who must be closely related to your life, death and sex. clear? (Learn to be strong);

4. Don’t make friends with the rich and the poor. His billions of dollars have nothing to do with you. Don’t treat yourself as a lapdog. He may have nothing and can give you his only steamed bun. (Learn to distinguish);

5. Don’t alienate your spiritually rich friends because of your financially wealthy friends. Slowly you will understand that financially wealthy friends can take you to eat and drink, or they can also bring you complications. Amid all the troubles, a friend with a rich spirit may take you to the fields or streams. There will be no fine wine, food, champagne, coffee, or dance floor, but she can run with you and laugh like a fool together. (Learn to respect yourself);

6. We can believe that there is really beautiful and faithful love in the world, but it belongs to the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, because they did not live long. And we live a long time. (Learn to cherish);

7. No matter why you get married, as long as you have children, you must love this price. No matter how simple and cold it is, you have the obligation to make it warm. Because you are a parent (learn to take responsibility);

8. Our youth disappears in the blink of an eye, and wrinkles creep to the corners of our eyes one by one. We cannot prevent time from destroying our appearance, but we can let our hearts Slowly temper it over the years, (learn to grow);

9. Don’t be persistent, there are many dissatisfactions in life, the world will not cater to you, the earth does not rotate for you, so don’t be obsessed with possessions, even us We are all just passers-by in the world of mortals. We are all naked in life. What can we take away with us in death? (Learn to let go).