Women are very clever, which is an important manifestation of women's wisdom and an important reason why women live freely. There are many manifestations of women's intelligence. Let me look at the characteristics of women's very smart performance with you.

Women are very clever 1 1, and know how to show weakness appropriately.

Smart women don't always show their ability and strength everywhere, but they will show weakness appropriately. Weakness is a very important skill. She doesn't represent your real weakness, but you can inspire others' wisdom and win their support and help by taking a step back. Appropriate weakness can make smart women live more easily.

A female friend of mine is very good at showing weakness in front of educating children. Every time a child learns to ask her questions, she always answers, I don't know. Can you think more about it yourself? In this way, children will begin to know that they can't rely on their parents invisibly and will gradually think independently.

There used to be a very important term in psychology, that is, boundary. Boundary refers to the difference between others and self. Smart women live easily because they fully understand the boundaries. She knows that children should not rely too much on her. In fact, it is to clarify the boundaries between her and her children. Learning is a child's business. Only by maximizing the way to stimulate children's self-discipline and self-study can children become more independent and excellent.

2. Know how to trust others

The second characteristic of smart women is trusting others. Compared with many women who always doubt others, smart women know more about the power of trust, which comes from women's confidence and self-confidence. They know that women's sense of security comes from themselves, and choosing to trust others is actually choosing to be kind to others.

Ai Shi, the founder of Mary Kay, once said that you should treat others as you want them to treat you. Trusting others doesn't mean that women lose their judgment. Trusting others is an important skill for smart women, because for women, they know that trusting others is actually more important to prevent risks. If one day even if he owes you, he actually loses himself, because he chooses to destroy your mutual trust with his own actions. It can be said that women who dare to trust others first are smart, because they inspire the greatest kindness in others with their own cleverness.

That year, flowers bloom and fall, and the moon is full. An important reason why Zhou Ying became the richest woman was that she dared to trust others. Although Wang Shijun, the housekeeper, betrayed her, she later chose to trust him. Wang Shijun expressed his lifelong loyalty to Zhou Ying. Later, he kept his promise and guarded the Wu family. In fact, telling is the power of trust.

3. Know the way of sincerity

The third characteristic of a smart woman is sincerity. What is sincerity? Sincerity refers to the truth and sincerity of a woman. "The Doctrine of the Mean" once said that self-sincerity, that is, sex; Self-knowledge and sincerity are called teaching. Sincerity is clear, and clarity is sincere. Only when the world is sincere can we do our best; If you can do your best, you can do your best; If you can make good use of human nature, you can make good use of things; If we can make the best use of everything, we can praise the teaching of heaven and earth.

This shows that when you are sincere, you can not only show your personality to the greatest extent, but also feel the movement of the earth. This is what sincerity can achieve. When we know the way of sincerity, we can often pry open everyone's hearts.

Sincerity can be said to be a very important principle for smart women to be human, because when you learn to be sincere, you actually choose to show yourself the most truly, and you won't hide yourself too much, so you will maximize your personality charm. Secondly, sincere people treat others sincerely. They know that people must be together, so when they get along with you, they are full of sincerity. They won't have more interests, so it's easier to get into other people's hearts and win their love and recognition.

Zhao Min in Jin Yong's novel "Eternal Dragon Slayer" is actually a very sincere person. She won Zhang Wuji's heart and later defeated Zhou Zhiruo because she was sincere and didn't care. She accompanied Zhang Wuji to this world with her heart and finally gained her happiness.

These are the three characteristics of a smart woman. Generally speaking, women with these three characteristics will live happily and peacefully. In contrast, if you have, welcome to discuss and share.

The performance characteristics of women are very clever 2 1, non-sexual and kind.

Our nature is kind, and it is even more precious to remain kind after the baptism of life.

However, we often find that people who are too kind are more likely to be bullied.

For example, in marriage, an overly kind woman will always be bullied by her husband or mother-in-law, because getting along with others is a kind of relationship. Being too kind will always make others easily infringe on their own interests.

Xiao Yang is a very kind woman. She always thinks that everyone does something for a reason, so she is considerate and considerate of others.

So when her mother-in-law interfered with his clothes and eating and drinking, she stood in her mother-in-law's position and felt that her mother-in-law was in pain, so she chose to listen. When her husband interfered with her friends, she considered that her husband might be jealous and chose to compromise.

Only when she was wronged, her husband and mother-in-law did not think from her point of view and still asked her to think for them.

Until the end, 15-year-old daughter said to her, mom, it's pathetic for you to live like this.

She suddenly realized that kindness is not an opportunity for others to hurt themselves, nor is it unfair to herself.

Therefore, smart women understand that kindness should not be given casually, and kindness should be sharp.

Don't pin your hopes on others.

A common mistake made by women is that they like to pin their sense of security on each other.

This is the gambler's psychology. If the other person is kind and knows the sense of boundary, it can still give you a sense of security. But what if he is not good? What about your sense of security?

Therefore, a smart woman had better not pin her hopes on others. Whether it is the pursuit of life or the pursuit of spirit.

Remember Fan Meisheng in Ode to Joy? From the beginning, she pinned her hopes of changing her destiny on others, and even hoped that men could help her solve problems at home.

After many efforts, she finally found such a man, that is her classmate Wang Baichuan. Wang Baichuan is really willing to help her solve this problem, hoping to become Fan's dependence.

But before long, Wang Baichuan couldn't hold on any longer, and finally they parted ways on the issue of the house.

To tell the truth, Wang Baichuan's feelings for Fan are very touching, but she still has no way to be Fan's dependence and hope.

In other words, the probability of taking others as your own hope is very low. Even if two people have a very good relationship, the other person can't completely bear everything for you.

So smart women will pin their hopes on themselves. For example, Fan later, she no longer wanted to rely on men to change her destiny. She changed her job, changed her attitude towards work and gained a better self.

Step 3 learn to save money

I don't know how many women, like me, always feel that making money is better than saving money.

In the early years, my mother always told me not to spend money indiscriminately, not to travel easily and not to buy so many clothes. If you save money, it may be of great use in the future.

I have been dismissive because I think money is earned, not saved. A person wants money because he can make money, not because he has saved all his money.

Until one day, one of my primary school classmates suddenly told me that she had bought a house.

I'm surprised. I asked him, how much is your monthly salary? Buying a house so soon. He smiled and told me that I earned more than 3,000 a month.

I buy a house for more than 3,000 yuan a month, several times more than him. I turned my head penniless and had no savings. I suddenly realized that maybe my mother was right.

It was not until this year that I experienced a low ebb for half a year that I finally realized that saving money is the most important thing for a smart person, especially for a smart woman, which means self-confidence, which comes from life.

Because only you who know how to save money can save a sum of money as the first bucket of gold, and then let yourself advance by leaps and bounds when the opportunity comes.

Step 4 simplify social activities

Women like to form cliques, which is reflected when they are young. We often find that when we were young, boys went to the toilet alone, while girls always went to the toilet together, and some people were even dragged as companions without going to the toilet.

Later, girls all appeared in groups. They will shop together, eat together, take photos together and punch in together. Few girls act alone.

But slowly, you will find that although it seems interesting to play together and do something together, when everything needs to be done by a group, you will find that it wastes a lot of your time.

Therefore, the more mature and intelligent a woman is, the more she understands the meaning of being alone.

There are really not many friends. It doesn't mean that you can invite friends to ten people at dinner, then ten people are your friends.

Only when you are in trouble can you become a true friend.

So streamline your social life, set aside some time for reading and meditation, clear your brain, and then get along with your real friends.

Well, that's enough about the four characteristics that a smart woman will have. What other qualities do you think a smart woman will have?

Women are smart. 3 0 1. Get out of the life without food and clothing.

Many girls have a good family, which can make them live well. However, some girls will not be lazy, do nothing, just wait and enjoy themselves. But not everything can make people happy.

Smart girls will walk out of this life that makes them worry about food and clothing, but rely on their own hands to create the life they want. A woman who can choose to live without food and clothing can say that she has a long-term vision.

Never lose long-term things because of immediate interests. This kind of woman knows life. However, many women can't do this. Simply put, they know that the loss outweighs the gain.

02. Have a keen intuition

It is said that women's intuition is very sensitive, which I don't deny, because there is such a person around me, and we all know that intuition is actually the ability to understand something directly without analyzing and reasoning.

It can bridge the gap between conscious and unconscious, instinct and reason in our thinking. In this respect, women actually trust their intuition more. Smart women will combine their true feelings with intuition instead of thinking too much about something.

They always believe that keen intuition can tell them what to do and what not to do. It can also help them understand the significance of doing these things, which is why smart women have such keen intuition.

03. Easy to accept new things

It is not easy to have an open mind, but smart women can do it. I say this absolutely because these women understand that only by understanding others will others understand themselves.

Because everything is mutual, if you don't respect others, you won't get their respect, and if you don't have a broad mind, you won't get their understanding. Therefore, smart women, they always seem to be very open-minded about everything.

In fact, it is good for others and good for yourself, because you can set up a good image on others, which is the advantage of smart women together.

04. Handle the relationship with elders harmoniously.

Dealing with elders can be said to be what everyone should do, but some people may not be able to do it, and some people may not be willing to do it. If you are willing to handle the relationship with your elders harmoniously, you will be loved by your elders.

Smart women, they can always establish their identity and status in the eyes of the elderly. Because they understand that their image in the eyes of their elders means what kind of life they will face.

To describe it in an inappropriate way is to deal with a man as he deals with you, so a smart woman will think clearly about what she did and said in front of her elders.