The relationship between people is mainly characterized by mutual need and interdependence.

To make use of each other, each other must have value of use, or have the same profit-driven psychology. Without utilization value, or without the same profit-driven mentality, this relationship will be difficult to establish. People who hold this view often have little use value themselves and want to take advantage of others, making it difficult to establish healthy and lasting interpersonal relationships with others.

So people should be wary of such people when socializing, so as not to be taken advantage of or calculated by others. The relationship of mutual help between people cannot be realized under any circumstances. Certain conditions are required, and the relationship of mutual help can only be realized within a certain scope and a certain space. Generally speaking, we don't help people who have nothing to do with us without any reason.

The simpler the relationship between people, the better.

The more friends the better, having no friends or having too few friends is a failure. It is undeniable that it is very beneficial to have many friends. At least you will not be lonely, you will have someone to discuss things with, and you can help each other when needed. But you have to be selective when making friends, not just anyone can be friends. If you blindly pursue quantity without paying attention to quality, even if you make thousands of friends, it will be in vain.

Friendship may seem simple, but it is actually very complicated. Most of it involves exchange of interests, which is understandable. It is normal for people to have exchanges of interests. However, to maintain such a relationship well, it is inevitable that there will be some hypocrisy and deliberateness, which will make you feel tired after a long time. As for true close friends, there is no exchange of interests and they get along with each other freely and casually.