No matter what kind of acquaintance you are, you can't see your character until you get along for a long time. Only people with good character deserve to make friends.
Look at people, don't look with your eyes, what you see is only the appearance, which can transcend the golden jade and defeat it; You can't listen with your ears, because no matter how bad your personality is, you can't have no advantages.
If you really want to know someone, it depends on time. After a long time, no matter how big the disguise is, it will be exposed one day. Secondly, you can feel it with your heart and observe its words and deeds. Really can't fake, really can't fake.
As the saying goes: short-term communication depends on temper, long-term communication depends on virtue, and lifelong communication depends on character.
Appreciate a person, make friends with a person, start from the face value, respect wisdom, fit personality, last longer than kindness, and finally is character.
It can be seen that character is the touchstone of making friends. Without good character, there will be no good behavior. Without a good behavior, there will be no good result.
A man knows his companion in a long journey and an inn. Only through the test of time, through the test of behavioral language, can we really understand and know a person.